Amid the whirlwind of activities, let's remember that Christmas is about God becoming Man to save us, that we may have eternal life with Him.

December is one of the most emotion-stirring months of the year, which is why it's helpful to remember the graces of Christmases past.

On Saint Lucy’s Day, let us light candles and bake saffron rolls. As we celebrate, let us remember that Christ is coming amid winter’s cold and darkness, bringing His warmth and light to the world.

On this feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe, take a moment to remember that you are a beloved daughter of Mary, and do something childlike to honor her today.

On the Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception—and every Holy Day of Obligation—let us pause and enter more deeply into the liturgical life of the Church.

December is marked by the presence of several beautiful female Saints, who can inspire and intercede for us as we prepare for Christmas.

If waiting has felt crushing, if desire has turned into a dull ache, or if suffering has left you whispering, "I can’t do this anymore," know this: there is a tenderness that meets us in the middle of our longing. Advent invites us not to hustle toward holiness but to be carried, slowly, into a hope that changes how we speak about what we want, how we hold our calendars, and how we endure. The weight of waiting—and the long-lasting grace that meets it Waiting can feel like a physical burden. It presses down until we imagine ourselves pinned beneath a cross too heavy to lift. In prayer one day, that image came alive and then, unexpectedly, a commercial for long-lasting batteries popped into the moment. The image landed like grace: the Lord replacing a faint, weary heart with long-lasting batteries. What felt like a clever metaphor is really a spiritual promise. We are not being asked to manufacture endurance on our own. Instead we are invited to receive steadiness—patience that is sustained by God, not by grit alone. That steadiness allows us to keep going without the lie that we must be the source of our survival. Name your desires with hope, not resignation One surprisingly practical shift: the way we voice our desires. Many of us name longing with a downward inflection—an admission that sounds like resignation. Changing that tone by ending in hope can reorient the whole body toward expectation. Instead of "I want a baby" trailing off, imagine saying, "I want a baby." The small shift of voice declares trust in the One who plants those desires. Think of navigation: one degree off today becomes miles off down the road. Voice and posture toward longing are those small corrections that steer a lifetime. Saying what you want with hope is not naïve; it’s an act of re-cooperating with the God who gives desire and who is at work to bring what He begins to completion. Unclench your calendar: live by liturgical rhythm Advent calls us to slow time down. There is a difference between external liturgical living—checking off religious obligations—and interior liturgical living, where the Church’s rhythms shape our inner clock. Set your sacred clock by liturgy, not the commercial calendar. Let the seasons rock you in undulating waves toward God. When we stop gripping our schedules so tightly, we create space for God to do interior work. Rhythm becomes a refuge; the Church’s calendar becomes a mother who steadies us with predictable movement toward eternity. Make room—internally and practically Imagine your inner life as a house cluttered with precarious piles. If the front door barely opens, gifts cannot enter. Sometimes the invitation is simply to clear one thing away so there is room for Someone else. A small, ordinary practice has huge results: leaving phones out of the bedroom. Removing that habitual noise creates an emptier, calmer interior at the hour when the soul is most prone to replay its anxieties. One simple change—turning the phone off at bedtime—was described like removing a cancerous mole; the relief was immediate. Making room is not always dramatic. It often looks like tiny removals: less scrolling, fewer urgent commitments, and a willingness to rest in the quiet. Those empty places are not threats. They become places where longing can be held and healed. Renounce hopelessness. Declare hope. Hopelessness can become the hidden lens through which we read life. It tells us nothing will change and that our lives are meaningless. Renouncing that lie aloud and declaring the truth is a powerful spiritual discipline. In the name of Jesus Christ, I renounce the lie that nothing will ever change and I will never have what I want or need. I renounce the lie that my life is meaningless and that I have nothing to live for. Then speak the filling truth: In Jesus' name I announce the truth that my hope is steadfast in Christ and that he makes all things new. I announce the truth that God is at work in me and what he began he will bring to completion. These words are re-training. Repeating a renunciation and its corresponding declaration daily rewires expectation. The spiritual life is full of these tiny, consistent practices that loosen the roots of despair and cultivate patient hope. Practical steps to carry into Advent Speak desire with hope: name what you want aloud with an upward, expectant tone. Create nightly margin: remove phones from the bedroom to guard the soul’s resting time. Unclench your calendar: choose liturgical rhythms—Advent practices that slow your heart instead of hurried tasks. Practice a renunciation and declaration daily: short, honest prayers that push back against hopelessness. Accept small shifts: one degree of adjustment matters over time; be patient with tiny changes. Advent is not a season of frantic fixes. It is a season of becoming small leaves on a river of grace, allowed to be carried. The longing you carry is not wasted; it is often the place where God chooses to meet you. Remember the promise: what he began, he will bring to completion. Rest in that truth. Let it steady you, give you stamina for the long haul, and reshape the way you speak about the desires you hold. If your heart feels heavy today, breathe—there is a long-lasting grace available. You are not alone in your waiting, and you do not have to carry the weight by yourself.

Love is what draws us in at Christmas time. But it is not just something in Hallmark movies. For Love Himself is the answer to every ache and question of our hearts.

This Advent, as we get ready for Christmas, let our hearts prepare Him room with the Sacrament of Confession.

In this season of waiting and wonder, the Church invites us to slow down, spend time in prayer, and make space for the One who is coming. And friend… it’s not too late to enter in. 💜 Advent 2025 Devotionals — You can still join us! Whether you're craving a reset, looking for peace, or longing for more intentional prayer, our Advent devotionals are the perfect way to step into the season right where you are. For women: In Time: Living in the Now and Not Yet by Claire DwyerA gentle guide to guard space for Christ in the hurry, to rediscover quiet, and to lean into the holy “in-between” of this season. For men: Feast: A Son’s Journey Home by Paul GeorgeAn invitation into mercy and renewal as we walk the path of the prodigal son and return to the Father’s heart this Advent. For kids: Watch and Wait by Olivia SpearsSimple reflections and activities that open little hearts to the wonder of Jesus. Virtual Advent Gathering: The Sacred Present Join us on Thursday, December 11th at 8pm ET for a beautiful LIVE Advent Gathering with Debra Herbeck as we enter more deeply into the gift of “the now” and the presence of the Lord in this season. Get notified right here. In-Person Advent Mini Retreat in Tempe, AZ You're invited to an Advent Mini-Retreat in Tempe, AZ on Saturday, December 13th from 8AM-12PM for a slow, sacred morning of Mass, breakfast, fellowship, worship, a talk, and Adoration. And the best part? It’s free! Invite a friend, coworker, or sister to join you. 💌 We can't wait to spend time together. Learn more & RSVP right here. Looking toward 2026: Your New Year Liturgical Planner 📒 As the year winds down, begin preparing your heart, and your calendar, for the new year. Our 2026 Calendar Year Liturgical Planner is the perfect companion to organize your days around prayer, reflection, and the rhythm of the Church. Start the new year with intention. Begin the next season with Jesus at the center.  This December let Jesus into your space. Light a candle, gather your people, and say yes to staying awake for Him. He is coming. And we’re so grateful to walk through this beautiful season with you. 💜 Click here to download your phone wallpaper. Click here to download your desktop wallpaper.

This Advent, enter into the Saint Andrew Christmas Novena with the hope that the Holy Family will take care of your intentions, even if it doesn’t look the way you expect. 

This Thanksgiving Day, let us begin the day with Mass and receive the greatest gift of all: Jesus Himself.

When gift-giving is rightly ordered, it’s not merely a distraction from the sacredness of Advent. It's a beautiful, even holy, expression of God’s love.

If you’ve ever felt distant from the Beatitudes, The Eight Promises of God by Father Mark-Mary Ames is the book for you.

As we prepare for Christmas, here is a treasure trove of Advent resources to nourish your soul this season.

Let us invite Christ into the suffering and struggle. Let us embrace it. Because God is with us, and He redeems our pain.

Blessed Is She is happy to announce its 2025 Christmas gift guide! Get a jump start on holiday shopping and enjoy special savings, so you can enter the season of Advent with peace of mind.