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Son + God - Blessed Is She

Son + God

It's when we face for a moment the worst our kind can do, and shudder to know the taint in our own selves, that awe cracks the mind's shell and...
Rooting Earthly Friendships in Christ - Blessed Is She

Rooting Earthly Friendships in Christ

I remember being an elementary schooler, just absolutely over the moon at the thought of going to middle school. I dreamt of friends who would decorate my first locker for...
9 Tips + Resources for Discerning Religious Life - Blessed Is She

9 Tips + Resources for Discerning Religious Life

No matter what stage of life you are in, it is important for every woman in the Church to know some practical tools for vocational discernment. The Latin word vocare...
Mystery and Manners Review - Blessed Is She

Mystery and Manners Review

It’s often said that Flannery O’Connor is one of, if not the best Catholic writer of the twentieth century. In her thirty-nine years before dying of lupus, she published two...
Imperfect + Honest - Blessed Is She

Imperfect + Honest

If you ask me what you are to do in order to be perfect, I say, first- Do not lie in bed beyond the due time of rising; give your...
3 Strikes: Rejoice, Be Patient, Pray - Blessed Is She

3 Strikes: Rejoice, Be Patient, Pray

I naively thought when you graduate college, get a job and find your spouse, that you were living out God’s will and all would be relatively fine. As we all...
Dating and the Quest for Holiness - Blessed Is She

Dating and the Quest for Holiness

Dating and holiness are not two words that I often associate with each other. The modern, free-range dating of today’s world leaves us with precious few saintly examples to follow...
The Feast of Sts. Anne and Joachim - Blessed Is She

The Feast of Sts. Anne and Joachim

The first time I remember learning about St. Anne was when I was in the fourth grade and I had to write a short paper on whichever saint I wanted....
Modesty: Healing the Wounds of Conditional Love - Blessed Is She

Modesty: Healing the Wounds of Conditional Love

When I first encountered the Catholic Church, I was blessed to be welcomed into a community of young women living their faith with vivacity and energy. As a secular feminist,...
St. Teresa of Avila and the Cathedrals of Spain - Blessed Is She

St. Teresa of Avila and the Cathedrals of Spain

I recently went on a grand and life-changing adventure/pilgrimage/trip to Spain. I set out with the intention to read and reflect on St. Teresa of Avila, but by the end...
The Mindful Catholic Review: Mindful in an Authentically Catholic Way - Blessed Is She

The Mindful Catholic Review: Mindful in an Authentically Catholic Way

It is like I was born again in the slowness of that hospital room. It was easy to be mindful and open and feel since the feelings were overwhelming and...
Trees + Dust - Blessed Is She

Trees + Dust

I think that I shall never see A poem lovely as a tree. A tree whose hungry mouth is pressed Against the earth's sweet flowing breast; A tree that looks...