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In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 27 - Blessed Is She

In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 27

There is a park I love and hate to take my kids to when it gets really hot. It is half awesome slides, half splash pad. As you can imagine, this is wildly popular among the families in our community, so it is always packed. I love it because my kids have a blast. I hate it because it is mentally exhausting to watch little ones up, down, and around all of the play equipment. Because, ultimately, I am afraid of them being separated and the accompanying feeling of fear that quickly follows until I can find them again...
In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 26 - Blessed Is She

In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 26

Two things washed over me as I listened to the lyrics of Matt Maher’s song, Garden...
In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 25 - Blessed Is She

In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 25

Upon becoming a new dad, a friend of mine described the experience of bringing a new baby into a room as inviting all occupants to a "baby campfire." I instantly knew what he meant. Instinctively, we know to gather, to see with new eyes, and allow ourselves to become transfixed on the thing of beauty before us...
Waiting in Darkness - Blessed Is She

Waiting in Darkness

I have been thinking a lot about the dark as the northern hemisphere creeps toward the longest night of the year. As an early riser, I notice these changes as...
The Difference Between All Saints' and All Souls' Days (and How to Celebrate Both) - Blessed Is She

The Difference Between All Saints' and All Souls' Days (and How to Celebrate Both)

Happy Feast of All Saints! This feast begins the month of November and orders our hearts and prayers toward a posture of giving gratitude. All Saints' Day and All Souls'...
Harvest Time and Letting Go - Blessed Is She

Harvest Time and Letting Go

Metaphors are a powerful tool for teaching, and there are few metaphors richer than that of bringing something new to birth. Two Kinds of Birth I always find it interesting...
Better Together: On the Feast of St. Vincent de Paul - Blessed Is She

Better Together: On the Feast of St. Vincent de Paul

In the way that only the Holy Spirit can work, St. Vincent de Paul has been tailing me for a long time. In eighth grade, long before I had ever...
A Letter to the First-Time College Student - Blessed Is She

A Letter to the First-Time College Student

Dear First-Time College Student (words I wish I had heard at the dawn of my college experience), I am so excited to hear that you are headed to college soon....
St. Bridget of Sweden + Preconceived Notions - Blessed Is She

St. Bridget of Sweden + Preconceived Notions

Recently on a hot afternoon at the park, my kids and I headed for the shade of a picnic pavilion at a nearby lake. We were marveling at the dragonflies...
Gardening for the Soul: Creating with the Creator - Blessed Is She

Gardening for the Soul: Creating with the Creator

Listen! A sower went out to sow. -Matthew 13:3   Growing up, we watched a lot of nature shows in our house. In that time, I got a good sampling...
St. Joseph the Worker Animates Our Service to Others - Blessed Is She

St. Joseph the Worker Animates Our Service to Others

“Look, Mom! That lady is feeding her baby while she drives!” shouted the alarmed voice from the backseat. Confused by this outburst, I looked around to find the woman in...
When Easter Sunday Feels Like Good Friday - Blessed Is She

When Easter Sunday Feels Like Good Friday

By and large, the Easter Sundays I have celebrated these past thirty-some years have spanned the spectrum and landed primarily on the joyful side. As a child, Easter joy made...