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Fighting Comparison with Gratitude: On Waiting to Have Kids - Blessed Is She

Fighting Comparison with Gratitude: On Waiting to Have Kids

I’ve heard many times, whether it’s from my spiritual director, my mom, or my own conscience, that comparison is the thief of joy. It robs us of the joy of...
The Holy Spirit and Family Planning - Blessed Is She

The Holy Spirit and Family Planning

I should have somehow known my children wouldn't come to me biologically. I was a horrible patient (still am) and detest any type of medical procedure. The Lord looked after...
How Jane de Chantal Impacted Me as a Mother - Blessed Is She

How Jane de Chantal Impacted Me as a Mother

There’s a story about St. Jane de Chantal's transformation that has always intrigued me. It’s included in each of the dozen or so biographies of her that I’ve read, even...
The Work of Motherhood - Blessed Is She

The Work of Motherhood

The blogger Elizabeth Duffy once wrote: If motherhood is hard at times, it’s probably because it allows us, without going terribly far out of our way, to mimic Christ.  ...
The Most Important Thing I Want My Children to Know - Blessed Is She

The Most Important Thing I Want My Children to Know

When I'm kept up at night by my racing thoughts, they usually revolve around my children. Specifically, they involve rigorous scrutiny of what I am or am not doing to...
The Vision Behind Our Catholic Prayer Book for Kids - Blessed Is She

The Vision Behind Our Catholic Prayer Book for Kids

The first people to ask us for a devotional for children were, in fact, our own children. Their sentiments were echoed from the amazing women in our community and in...
Why We Hope Our Kids Rise Up - Blessed Is She

Why We Hope Our Kids Rise Up

We all have children in our lives in some capacity. We are moms, aunts, big sisters, teachers, godmothers, parish volunteers, and foster parents. In our work with children—whatever that looks...
What is a Mother's Blessing? - Blessed Is She

What is a Mother's Blessing?

Here’s a little baby shower game for you: let’s list the very worst things about a traditional baby shower. Ready? The relentlessly perky atmosphere? The obligation to purchase a bushel...
First Reconciliation (a Poem) - Blessed Is She

First Reconciliation (a Poem)

An Act of Contrition With a cynical heart, I stand obediently in church, Holding my young son’s hand, In line with other adults whose hearts May or may not be...
Healing After Miscarriage - Blessed Is She

Healing After Miscarriage

If you have ever been pregnant, you know the feeling of protecting the miracle growing inside of you. You know how your mind is filled with constant thoughts of the...
Unique and Usable Biblical Baby Names - Blessed Is She

Unique and Usable Biblical Baby Names

Chilly weather does wonders for bringing couples together. It’s no wonder that the month with the highest number of births year after year is September, followed closely by August and...
The Joys + Struggles of New Motherhood - Blessed Is She

The Joys + Struggles of New Motherhood

Little gal pal Callan Thérèse made her debut on December 7th, and life truly has not been the same since. New motherhood has been a season of learning, growing, and...