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Ten Tips for Starting a Parish Ministry - Blessed Is She

Ten Tips for Starting a Parish Ministry

We never know why God has called us to do something, but when we feel His call, it is our duty as faithful servants to respond with a loving and...
God's Love on My Journey Through Depression and Anxiety - Blessed Is She

God's Love on My Journey Through Depression and Anxiety

If you've ever struggled with depression, you would know that the feeling of indifference often clouds your perception of life. Whether it's towards daily activities, relationships, or even prayer, indifference...
3 Myths about Catholics and Divorce - Blessed Is She

3 Myths about Catholics and Divorce

Sometimes life doesn’t always go the way we plan. Sometimes our dreams and ideals do not turn out the way we hoped. I never would have imagined at 31 years...
Integrating Faith into Family Vacations - Blessed Is She

Integrating Faith into Family Vacations

For me, vacation is a highly coveted week at our house. We plan for it all year, map out where we plan on going, save and dream about our week...
Vulnerability in Marriage - Blessed Is She

Vulnerability in Marriage

My husband and I have had issues. At one point I thought we were resolved to simply tolerate each other until death did we part. Maybe you've felt that way...
Before I Formed You:  An Honest Look at a Surprise Pregnancy, Depression and Finding Help - Blessed Is She

Before I Formed You: An Honest Look at a Surprise Pregnancy, Depression and Finding Help

Hot tears covered my hands. I brushed my wet hair from my face and looked up from the table and into my husband's eyes. Some noise blaring from the television...
When Marriage Doesn't Happen - Blessed Is She

When Marriage Doesn't Happen

As you might have ascertained from this post's very blunt title, it is about, shall we say, extended singlehood. Far be it from me to brag, but singlehood is a...
4 Thoughtful Ways to Celebrate Your Anniversary - Blessed Is She

4 Thoughtful Ways to Celebrate Your Anniversary

When my husband, Matt, and I started dating on August 17, 2014, we decided it would be fun to celebrate our anniversary each month. While our festivities have ranged from...
My Greatest Education: A Year in Service - Blessed Is She

My Greatest Education: A Year in Service

The bus doors opened. An impatient, tired, overnight bus driver sat behind the wheel and looked me over as I stood on the corner like a kid on the first...
Planning a Catholic Wedding - Blessed Is She

Planning a Catholic Wedding

“It’s not just about the wedding, it’s about the sacrament.” Truth abounds in these words, and if you’re engaged, you’ve probably spoken them yourself. It’s a grounding thought; peaceful, reassuring,...
What's a Girl to Do When Dating a Non-Catholic - Blessed Is She

What's a Girl to Do When Dating a Non-Catholic

In fifth grade, I met my future husband. We met through a mutual friend. I went to public school with our friend, who lived a few doors down from Bob....
Dating a Non-Catholic - Blessed Is She

Dating a Non-Catholic

I was a little boy-crazy back in high school. I had an endless series of crushes. I dated. I flirted. I broke some hearts and I had my heart broken....