First Reading: Tobit 2:9-14
On the same night I returned from burying him, and because I was defiled I slept by the wall of the courtyard, and my face was uncovered. I did not know that there were sparrows on the wall and their fresh droppings fell into my open eyes and white films formed on my eyes. I went to physicians, but they did not help me. Ahikar, however, took care of me until he went to Elymais. Then my wife Anna earned money at women's work. She used to send the product to the owners. Once when they paid her wages, they also gave her a kid; and when she returned to me it began to bleat. So I said to her, "Where did you get the kid? It is not stolen, is it? Return it to the owners; for it is not right to eat what is stolen." And she said, "It was given to me as a gift in addition to my wages." But I did not believe her, and told her to return it to the owners; and I blushed for her. Then she replied to me, "Where are your charities and your righteous deeds? You seem to know everything!"
Responsorial Psalm: Psalms 112:1-2, 7-9
Praise the LORD. Blessed is the man who fears the LORD, who greatly delights in his commandments! His descendants will be mighty in the land; the generation of the upright will be blessed. He is not afraid of evil tidings; his heart is firm, trusting in the LORD. His heart is steady, he will not be afraid, until he sees his desire on his adversaries. He has distributed freely, he has given to the poor; his righteousness endures for ever; his horn is exalted in honor.
Gospel: Mark 12:13-17
And they sent to him some of the Pharisees and some of the Hero'di-ans, to entrap him in his talk. And they came and said to him, "Teacher, we know that you are true, and care for no man; for you do not regard the position of men, but truly teach the way of God. Is it lawful to pay taxes to Caesar, or not? Should we pay them, or should we not?" But knowing their hypocrisy, he said to them, "Why put me to the test? Bring me a coin, and let me look at it." And they brought one. And he said to them, "Whose likeness and inscription is this?" They said to him, "Caesar's." Jesus said to them, "Render to Caesar the things that are Caesar's, and to God the things that are God's." And they were amazed at him.
Tobit! I can't help but to giggle at what happened to him, yet also feel pity for what he suffered. Blindness for four years! Unable to work, and having to rely on the efforts of his wife and the goodness of others!
Tobit's blindness ran deeper than his eyes, as we read. He tells a story of his wife being gifted with a goat, as extra payment, for what we can assume was a job well-done, even exceptionally well-done! Here is Anna, blind Tobit's wife, working hard and lovingly to support the family during her husband's long-term disability. I like to think that not only does she work hard, she also worked with a joyful spirit and without complaint. After all, what employer do you know who gives extra to those who whine and complain?
But, Tobit in his literal and emotional and spiritual blindness, doesn't—no, can't—see the gift in his wife's devotion and work. He instead accuses her or someone else of theft. He demands that the goat be returned! Tobit doesn't even believe his wife when she tells him the kid is a gift!
Poor Tobit has completely missed the point, missed the beauty in the gift, and even worse—lost sight of the beauty in his wife's devotion and servant-heart.
I don't know about you, but I often am like Tobit, even though I have physical sight. Someone does something or says something not quite as I expected, and because I'm faced with changing my view or forcing them to fit into my pre-conceived notions, I refuse to change myself and miss that the other was well-intentioned and trying to be kind, helpful, and generous.
Don't be a Tobit! Let the Holy Spirit open your eyes and heart to the gifts all around us, especially those in others. Ask the Holy Spirit to let you really see, so that you may live with gratitude and joy, instead of spiritual blindness.
Gina Fensterer is a wife, daughter, mother, friend, homeschooling mama and Colorado native. You can find out more about her here.