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The Heart’s Search for Community: Daphne du Maurier’s 'The Scapegoat' - Blessed Is She

The Heart’s Search for Community: Daphne du Maurier’s 'The Scapegoat'

When it comes to development of our spiritual and social lives, the type of journey we set out on comes in a variety of forms. I think of the hobbits...
How the Church Can Support Single People - Blessed Is She

How the Church Can Support Single People

God has given us the gift of life! To live our lives well involves commitments and decisions that can be daunting and intimidating, even more so if you are trying...
Purpose + Guidance - Blessed Is She

Purpose + Guidance

God has created me to do Him some definite service. He has committed some work to me which He has not committed to another. I have my mission. I may...
How to Cultivate Hope When You're Not Feeling It - Blessed Is She

How to Cultivate Hope When You're Not Feeling It

Many of us are facing the longest, coldest, most dreary part of the year. Winter has us in its grasp and we’re immersed in the penitential season of Lent. Now...
How to Choose Songs for Mass: A Guide for Music Ministers - Blessed Is She

How to Choose Songs for Mass: A Guide for Music Ministers

Music ministry is probably one of the most debated aspects of the Mass. Personally, as a very musical person, I find that music can either be the element that most...
5 Ways to Discover God While Traveling - Blessed Is She

5 Ways to Discover God While Traveling

Travel and faith. These are two words that are important in many people's lives. You may notice that, generally, many separate them by thinking of traveling as one part of...
Contentment + Repentance - Blessed Is She

Contentment + Repentance

To teach the grey earth like a child, To bid the heavens repent, I only ask from Fate the gift Of one man well content. Him will I find: though...
Why I'm Jealous of Converts (and What They Teach Me) - Blessed Is She

Why I'm Jealous of Converts (and What They Teach Me)

I am a cradle Catholic. There, I said it. I wish I could share my conversion story and tell of an intensely earnest, perhaps even tear-stained journey from where I...
Giving Alms by Shopping Ethically - Blessed Is She

Giving Alms by Shopping Ethically

Almsgiving is one of the most prominent aspects of our Faith’s Lenten practice. We all know that Lent is a time to give more than our norm, and I think...
Breathe + Restore - Blessed Is She

Breathe + Restore

Come, my Light, and illumine my darkness. Come, my Life, and revive me from death. Come, my Physician, and heal my wounds. Come, Flame of divine love, and burn up...
On Widowhood: Celebrating the Completed Life - Blessed Is She

On Widowhood: Celebrating the Completed Life

Filling out a bit of paperwork recently, I was given the choice of two states: married or single. It gave me pause because very simply, I am neither. I am...
Check Yes or No: Courageously Building Your Community - Blessed Is She

Check Yes or No: Courageously Building Your Community

“Will you be my boyfriend? Check Yes or No," I wrote at the young age of 12 on my wide ruled piece of notebook paper. I ripped it out as...