for the modern catholic woman

The Blessed is She Blog

BIS Reads: The Peace of the Wild Things - Blessed Is She

BIS Reads: The Peace of the Wild Things

When despair grows in me and I wake in the night at the least sound in fear of what my life and my children's lives may be, I go and...
Every Sin Has a Backstory - Blessed Is She

Every Sin Has a Backstory

My friend told me he is gay. I love him dearly but he wants me to celebrate him coming out. What should I do? My sister wants to move in...
Living Lent When Your Life is in Transition - Blessed Is She

Living Lent When Your Life is in Transition

As I’m writing this, I am 34 weeks pregnant. My to-do list feels a mile long, filled with tasks varying in importance from “hang pictures in the nursery” to “install...
Choosing a Theme for Lent - Blessed Is She

Choosing a Theme for Lent

Coming up with something to give up for Lent was easy as a child. I would give up my soda habit and tease my brother for his foolish lack of...
Feeling Cold - Blessed Is She

Feeling Cold

It had been a “bleak midwinter” in West Michigan, to say the least. I did not experience the normal delight and fascination with the cold months as we muddled through...
Scripture Verses to Pray When You Have the Winter Blues - Blessed Is She

Scripture Verses to Pray When You Have the Winter Blues

It was the first full week of January. My children were back in school, and life was slowly returning to normal after a fun, but unstructured, Christmas break. I expected...
Scavenger Hunt for God - Blessed Is She

Scavenger Hunt for God

I see Him in the most unlikely of places now. He appears in my peripheral vision as I pray, when a bird appears suddenly on my windowsill. My heart stirs...
The Restore Retreat Can Change Your Life - Blessed Is She

The Restore Retreat Can Change Your Life

You empty yourself for others on a regular basis. You crave intimacy with Jesus. You long for community with other Catholic women. You want to be still for a moment....
Grace in the Wanting: Searching for a Unique + Intimate Relationship with Jesus - Blessed Is She

Grace in the Wanting: Searching for a Unique + Intimate Relationship with Jesus

Before I met my husband, I was so annoyed by people with boyfriends. They spent all their time together, talking nonstop, always considering what the other person wanted or thought....
How I Pray with My Husband - Blessed Is She

How I Pray with My Husband

For a long time, my husband and I didn’t pray together the way we do now. We’d been together in prayer a lot, praying side by side at church, sharing...
The Humility of Asking for Prayers for Yourself - Blessed Is She

The Humility of Asking for Prayers for Yourself

Within my own life, there are a few common sentiments expressed in everyday life that make my heart twinge with sharp little pains every time I hear them. Things like...
Behind the Scenes of Blessed is She // Tools + Tech - Blessed Is She

Behind the Scenes of Blessed is She // Tools + Tech

We're often asked a variety of questions about what the Blessed is She ministry uses to make videos, downloads, and so on. So we're pulling back the tech-y curtain—come on...