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Longing for Motherhood - Blessed Is She

Longing for Motherhood

I sat in the pew, clenching my husband’s hand and biting my lip to numb the pain and fight back the tears. All the mothers stood to receive a special...
Spiritual Advice for the First-Time Mom - Blessed Is She

Spiritual Advice for the First-Time Mom

I became a mom nearly a year ago. I still remember, vividly, the moment the doctor pulled my son out of me. His fair skin, small arms, a head full...
The Ninth Hour Book Review - Blessed Is She

The Ninth Hour Book Review

Disclaimer: This review contains a few mild spoilers! For those familiar with the writings and works of Flannery O’Connor, the grotesque and the gruesome are not uncommon. As a famed...
5 Ways to Sustain Friendship Through Life Changes - Blessed Is She

5 Ways to Sustain Friendship Through Life Changes

A number of years ago, a friend of mine shared with me that I had previously stood her up. We made a plan to meet for coffee and I, in...
Detach + Be - Blessed Is She

Detach + Be

It is useless to try to make peace with ourselves by being pleased with everything we have done. In order to settle down in the quiet of our own being...
Believing in Beauty - Blessed Is She

Believing in Beauty

After I buried my daughter, I walked into my mother’s kitchen and beheld a granite island clothed in a rainbow of fruits and vegetables for guests at the funeral reception....
Our Lady of Middle Age - Blessed Is She

Our Lady of Middle Age

Stop for a moment and think of Mary. What image of her comes to mind? Maybe you think of a young mother holding a baby, like we see in countless...
What is an Indulgence? - Blessed Is She

What is an Indulgence?

The word “indulgence” always made me feel a little uncomfortable. Growing up Catholic, I knew it was something Martin Luther got upset about when he separated himself from Catholicism back...
5 Ways to Be More Like Mary - Blessed Is She

5 Ways to Be More Like Mary

May is a wonderful month for so many reasons. Spring flowers are in full bloom, the air is fresh, and birds chirp as they happily feather their nests. It seems...
Catholic Wedding Gift Guide: Meaningful Ideas for the Happy Couple - Blessed Is She

Catholic Wedding Gift Guide: Meaningful Ideas for the Happy Couple

I can hear the bells ringing already. Wedding season is upon us, sisters! If you have friends who will soon be goin’ to the chapel and if you’re looking for...
Mom Guilt and Answered Prayers - Blessed Is She

Mom Guilt and Answered Prayers

“Are you telling me you’re upset because you have more time on your hands than you know what to do with?” questioned my husband, John. Tears welled up in my...
Wake + Walk - Blessed Is She

Wake + Walk

O Lord, when I awake, and day begins, waken me to thy Presence; waken me to thine indwelling; waken me to inward sight of thee, and speech with thee, and...