Have you ever felt like no one gets you? Like you’re stuck behind a wall, unable to let anyone in? It’s not just you. There are so many out there who struggle with trust, vulnerability, and the fear of betrayal. It’s a common experience, rooted in childhood wounds and painful relationships that can leave us feeling isolated. But here’s the good news: Jesus doesn’t want to fix you just to be done with you. He reveals to heal.
The Journey of Vulnerability
Think about it. Many of us build walls to protect ourselves because of past hurts. We might never have truly opened up to anyone, and as a result, we don’t even know what betrayal feels like. This can lead to a life where we shut down our emotions and become adults who never let anyone in. But what if we could change that? What if we could allow Jesus to reveal those hidden parts of ourselves so that He can heal them?
Trusting Again
Trust is a tricky thing. Some people find it easy to trust, while others are naturally guarded. The key is understanding that trusting doesn't mean being naive. It means being open to the possibility of love and connection, even when there’s a risk of being hurt. It’s about finding a balance between vulnerability and self-protection.
In the podcast, we discussed the importance of relationships and how they shape our understanding of trust. If we’ve been let down in the past, we might hesitate to let anyone in again. But remember, healing often starts with being honest about our wounds. It’s about letting Jesus into those places where we’ve been hurt.
Healing Through Connection
One of the most beautiful things about Jesus is His willingness to bear our burdens. He understands our pain and wants to help us heal. As we navigate our relationships, it’s essential to remember that healing is not just about fixing problems; it’s about restoring our hearts and reconnecting with our true selves.
Dealing with Betrayal
Betrayal can come in many forms, whether it’s from friends, family, or even ourselves. It’s important to recognize that feeling betrayed by someone close to us hurts more than if it came from a stranger. This is because those intimate relationships carry weight. They are where we put our trust, and when that trust is broken, it can cut deep.
In talking about betrayal, we also touched on the idea that sometimes, we need to let go of past hurts to move forward. It’s not easy, but the more we hold onto those feelings, the more they can control our lives. Letting Jesus in means allowing Him to help us process these feelings and ultimately heal from them.
Seeking Healing
So, how do we seek healing? One practical step is to engage in the Sacrament of Confession. It’s a beautiful opportunity to lay our burdens down and experience God's mercy. If you’re unsure where to start, check out this post on How to Go to Confession + an Examination of Conscience for Women - Blessed Is She for guidance.
For a deeper exploration of our conscience and the struggles we face, I recommend checking out SpiritualDirection.com. It’s a great resource to help navigate those tricky emotions and find healing.
Finding Freedom
What we often forget is that Jesus cares about our healing more than we do. He wants us to be whole, free, and in communion with Him. This can mean confronting uncomfortable truths about our past and allowing His love to wash over those wounds. Sometimes, this takes time, and that’s okay. Healing is a journey, not a race.
As we dive deeper into our healing journeys, let’s remember that we are not alone. There are communities and resources available to help us along the way. For those struggling with issues like pornography, consider joining Arise, a program designed to help women break free from unwanted habits and find healing.
The Journey Continues
In closing, it’s essential to recognize that our struggles, betrayals, and wounds do not define us. They are part of our story, but they don’t have to dictate our future. Jesus invites us into a relationship where we can be vulnerable, heal, and grow.
Healing is a process, and it often begins with a simple step: letting go of the fear of being hurt and allowing ourselves to be loved. Remember, you belong here, and you are not alone on this journey.
Let’s continue to support one another, share our stories, and encourage healing in our lives. Together, we can find the strength to open our hearts and let Jesus in.
Jenna Guizar is a wife and mama in sunny AZ. She pretends to love football for her husband, reads lots of books to her seven lovely babes, and tries not to burn mac n cheese on the daily. In between football games, reading books, and [not] burning mac n cheese, she is the Founder + Creative Director of Blessed is She women’s ministry + community. Find out more about her here.
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