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Loving Those Who Don’t Love You

Tuesday of the Eleventh Week in Ordinary Time

Reading 1 1 Kings 21:17-29

After the death of Naboth the LORD said to Elijah the Tishbite:
"Start down to meet Ahab, king of Israel,
who rules in Samaria.
He will be in the vineyard of Naboth,
of which he has come to take possession.
This is what you shall tell him,
'The LORD says: After murdering, do you also take possession?
For this, the LORD says:
In the place where the dogs licked up the blood of Naboth,
the dogs shall lick up your blood, too.'"
Ahab said to Elijah, "Have you found me out, my enemy?"
"Yes," he answered.
"Because you have given yourself up to doing evil in the LORD's sight,
I am bringing evil upon you: I will destroy you
and will cut off every male in Ahab's line,
whether slave or freeman, in Israel.
I will make your house like that of Jeroboam, son of Nebat,
and like that of Baasha, son of Ahijah,
because of how you have provoked me by leading Israel into sin."
(Against Jezebel, too, the LORD declared,
"The dogs shall devour Jezebel in the district of Jezreel.")
"When one of Ahab's line dies in the city,
dogs will devour him;
when one of them dies in the field,
the birds of the sky will devour him."
Indeed, no one gave himself up to the doing of evil
in the sight of the LORD as did Ahab,
urged on by his wife Jezebel.
He became completely abominable by following idols,
just as the Amorites had done,
whom the LORD drove out before the children of Israel.

When Ahab heard these words, he tore his garments
and put on sackcloth over his bare flesh.
He fasted, slept in the sackcloth, and went about subdued.
Then the LORD said to Elijah the Tishbite,
"Have you seen that Ahab has humbled himself before me?
Since he has humbled himself before me,
I will not bring the evil in his time.
I will bring the evil upon his house during the reign of his son."
 

Responsorial Psalm Psalm 51:3-4, 5-6ab, 11 and 16

R. (see 3a) Be merciful, O Lord, for we have sinned.
Have mercy on me, O God, in your goodness;
in the greatness of your compassion wipe out my offense.
Thoroughly wash me from my guilt
and of my sin cleanse me. 
R. Be merciful, O Lord, for we have sinned.
For I acknowledge my offense,
and my sin is before me always:
"Against you only have I sinned,
and done what is evil in your sight."
R. Be merciful, O Lord, for we have sinned.
Turn away your face from my sins,
and blot out all my guilt.
Free me from blood guilt, O God, my saving God;
then my tongue shall revel in your justice.
R. Be merciful, O Lord, for we have sinned.
 

Alleluia John 13:34

R. Alleluia, alleluia.
I give you a new commandment;
love one another as I have loved you.
R. Alleluia, alleluia.
 

Gospel Matthew 5:43-48

Jesus said to his disciples:
"You have heard that it was said,
You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.
But I say to you, love your enemies
and pray for those who persecute you,
that you may be children of your heavenly Father,
for he makes his sun rise on the bad and the good,
and causes rain to fall on the just and the unjust.
For if you love those who love you, what recompense will you have?
Do not the tax collectors do the same?
And if you greet your brothers only,
what is unusual about that?
Do not the pagans do the same?
So be perfect, just as your heavenly Father is perfect."
 

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Lectionary for Mass for Use in the Dioceses of the United States, second typical edition, Copyright © 2001, 1998, 1997, 1986, 1970 Confraternity of Christian Doctrine; Psalm refrain © 1968, 1981, 1997, International Committee on English in the Liturgy, Inc. All rights reserved. Neither this work nor any part of it may be reproduced, distributed, performed or displayed in any medium, including electronic or digital, without permission in writing from the copyright owner.

Loving Those Who Don’t Love You

June 16, 2026 // Tuesday of the Eleventh Week in Ordinary Time

Read the Word // Open your Bible to today’s Gospel: Matthew 5:43-48 

Reflect on the Word // 

As a recovering people-pleaser, I’ve had to wrestle with the reality that not everyone loves or likes me. I’m not everyone’s cup of tea—just as some people are not my cup of tea. One day in prayer, struggling over a situation involving someone who disliked me, I was inspired to ask the Lord, How do You see this person? God allowed me to imagine them in a glorified state, in the light of His love. Afterwards, I found myself more free to love this person with God’s transcendent love and genuinely pray for them even when their actions still stung.

This prayer reminded me that God has beautiful reasons for making humans so different. He is infinitely creative and loves variety. He gives us different strengths and allows particular weaknesses so that we are interdependent, relying on one another in community and complementing each other in the process. 

Yet as fallen human beings, we also have different wounds, sins, and defects. Our differences often grate against one another in painful ways. This friction can tempt us to deep resentment, fear, and division—or it can propel us toward authentic virtue, repentance, and charity.

Thankfully, our Lord doesn’t call us to bulldoze healthy boundaries. We don’t need to give in to someone’s selfish whims or approve of unjust behaviors. Christ in today’s Gospel does not command us to like someone’s personality or actions, but rather to love the person themselves, made in the image and likeness of God (see Matthew 5:43-45).

How do we love other fallen children of God as Christ does? Through intercessory prayer and self-gift. Even if we never exchange words with our so-called “enemies” (sometimes it’s best not to!), we can still love them intentionally by praying for them and making little sacrifices for them. 

None of us can journey through this life alone. Some people serve as companions on our journey— others, as instruments of sanctification. 

This friction we experience from those instruments of sanctification, when paired with love, is like fine sandpaper. It smooths our roughest edges and shapes us ever more beautifully into the infinitely unique saints we were created to be.  

Relate to the Lord // If you’re struggling with someone today, ask the Lord to show you how He sees that person. Notice how your heart changes. 

Megan Hjelmstad
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Megan Hjelmstad (“Helm-stead”) is a wife, enthusiastic hockey mom, and Army Veteran living in Denver, CO.  After serving fifteen years in the United States Army, Megan now serves the Church as an author, speaker, and women's mentor in her “spare” time. Megan loves to share God’s hope in suffering and is the author of Offer it Up: Discovering the Power and Purpose of Redemptive Suffering. She’s a long-time team member of Blessed is She and a writer and speaker for several other ministries. Megan adores books, sleep, sunshine, and Colorado’s great outdoors almost as much as she adores Jesus in the Eucharist. Learn more at MeganHjelmstad.com.

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