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A Mother's Prayer When Baby Isn't Healthy - Blessed Is She

A Mother's Prayer When Baby Isn't Healthy

“We don’t care what it is, so long as it’s healthy.” I heard this response when parents were asked, “Do you hope it’s a boy or a girl?” A mother...
Better Together: On the Feast of St. Vincent de Paul - Blessed Is She

Better Together: On the Feast of St. Vincent de Paul

In the way that only the Holy Spirit can work, St. Vincent de Paul has been tailing me for a long time. In eighth grade, long before I had ever...
My Self-Portrait Project + Healing from Miscarriage - Blessed Is She

My Self-Portrait Project + Healing from Miscarriage

It was the proverbial second chance and I was determined to have no regrets. Two blue lines on a white stick. A new baby was on the way. 17 weeks...
Our Lady of Sorrows: How to Comfort the Blessed Mother - Blessed Is She

Our Lady of Sorrows: How to Comfort the Blessed Mother

There’s an age old devotion to Mary which has somewhat fallen by the wayside in recent generations. At times, I still find myself hesitant to pray to this Madonna myself....
Run to the Cross - Blessed Is She

Run to the Cross

Recently at Mass, I saw what I often see. A mother walked into Mass with a toddler: a little girl with a pink bow on her head and a pretty,...
Turning to Jesus When Struggling With Depression - Blessed Is She

Turning to Jesus When Struggling With Depression

I was officially diagnosed with depression and anxiety when I was a freshman in high school. Though I have learned coping methods over the years, it is still a struggle...
How to Pray the Litany of Humility - Blessed Is She

How to Pray the Litany of Humility

No one reaches the kingdom of Heaven except through humility. -St. Augustine   When I think of the holiest people I know, “humble” is one of the first words I’d...
Dating and Pornography Addiction - Blessed Is She

Dating and Pornography Addiction

One of the most blatant, destructive, and obvious evils attacking relationships today is pornography. In the United States alone, over 40 million people are sexually involved with the internet, meaning...
Ways to Pray While Carpooling/Commuting - Blessed Is She

Ways to Pray While Carpooling/Commuting

I live in Southern California which means I deal with traffic all the time. To make matters even more fun, I work in Los Angeles, but live in Orange County,...
Liturgical Living Ideas for the Fall - Blessed Is She

Liturgical Living Ideas for the Fall

Fall is right around the corner! And I don’t know about you, but the beginning of the autumn season reminds me of a “mini” new year. Of course, it feels...
Remember This When Life Doesn't Go as Planned - Blessed Is She

Remember This When Life Doesn't Go as Planned

My summer was going to be perfect. I landed an amazing summer job involving the great outdoors and working with kids—two of my favorite things. I was going to be...
Sts. Monica and Augustine: Lessons from a Famous Mother-Son Duo in the Church - Blessed Is She

Saints Monica and Augustine: Lessons from a Famous Mother-Son Duo in the Church

As I have grown in my faith, I have made close spiritual friendships with a wide variety of saints. Like many of you, I have my favorite spiritual besties who...