Many years ago, someone close to me was involved in a serious car accident. It changed her life dramatically as she suffered a closed-head injury as well as other serious injuries. It was a long and unfortunately incomplete recovery.
At some point in her healing, she was lamenting with a friend and asked, “Why would God put me through this?” He responded, “Maybe this isn’t about you.” She digested the thought awhile and then put it aside. About five years later, she and her husband gave birth to a sweet baby girl. After the first few months, it was clear that this sweet little girl suffered from some pretty serious cognitive delays. And it all clicked. Her own accident, emotional suffering and physical pain, doctor appointments and rehab sessions—they were in preparation for things to come once she became a parent.
Sometimes we are asked to endure trials, or as Saint Paul in today's reading (2 Corinthians 1:1-7) calls them "afflictions," so that we may be able to encourage those who are experiencing affliction as well.
It is very difficult to have empathy if we lack experience. Even if we love someone deeply, it is impossible to walk the path of grief for example, if we have never experienced grief. We can sympathize, but we cannot empathize. We can witness and listen, but we lack a level of understanding.
Jesus, fully Man and fully Divine, experienced great suffering, and He understands in a supernatural way the depth of suffering we experience. As you share in the sufferings of this world, may you also share in the encouragement and hope that endures through all. It is impossible to have foresight regarding our own growth through the struggle, but if you are in a dark moment now, remain hopeful and be encouraged.
May Christ’s sufferings and encouragement both overflow to you.
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Dr. Mary Ruth Hackett is a writer, national speaker, and podcast host covering topics in psychology and faith. She holds a PhD in Educational Psychology and works at the important intersection of faith and developmental science, blending them in the original harmony God intended. Dr. Mary Ruth is the author of Daughter by Design: Discovering Your Identity as God's Beloved Daughter, and co-coauthor of Spiritual Discernment for Beginners: Learning to Hear God and Defeat the Lies of the Enemy. She is a contributing author to All She Had and our children’s devotional prayer book called Rise Up. Find out more about her here.
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