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Mom Guilt and Answered Prayers - Blessed Is She

Mom Guilt and Answered Prayers

“Are you telling me you’re upset because you have more time on your hands than you know what to do with?” questioned my husband, John. Tears welled up in my...
Gym Time with Jesus: Nurturing Body and Soul - Blessed Is She

Gym Time with Jesus: Nurturing Body and Soul

She girds herself with strength; she exerts her arms with vigor. -Proverbs 31:17 Have you ever invited God to workout with you? Perhaps you’re already leading a healthy lifestyle and...
5 Things Catholics Need to Know About Annulments (From a Canon Lawyer) - Blessed Is She

5 Things Catholics Need to Know About Annulments (From a Canon Lawyer)

Annulments can be misunderstood. Even by well-formed Catholics. Believe it or not, I made it to the end of my undergraduate studies without ever having heard a comprehendible explanation of...
From Counting Shortcomings to Counting Blessings - Blessed Is She

From Counting Shortcomings to Counting Blessings

I’ve been running around the house the last few days like a drill sergeant with a severe case of OCD. “What?!” I shriek at my lovable toddler as he tracks...
Why and How to Start a Meal Train - Blessed Is She

Why and How to Start a Meal Train

The arrival of a new baby. Loss of a loved one. Financial difficulty. Illness. Hospitalization. These are just a few of the situations that bring out a family’s need for...
Our Family Secret: Addiction and Shame - Blessed Is She

Our Family Secret: Addiction and Shame

One Wednesday night, my husband and I attended a class that Catholic Charities hosted at our parish about family stress. We sat in a partially-filled room as the topic of...
Being a Light on Your College Campus - Blessed Is She

Being a Light on Your College Campus

As a Catholic college student, it is easy to be tempted to despair at times when one sees the state of their college campus. The culture of college seems to...
Grappling with Generosity - Blessed Is She

Grappling with Generosity

Almost every evening as I head home from work, there is a homeless veteran perched at the end of the highway exit where cars line up at a red light....
How to Create a Prayer Corner in Your Home - Blessed Is She

How to Create a Prayer Corner in Your Home

For me, prayer is a surge of the heart; it is a simple look turned toward heaven, it is a cry of recognition and of love, embracing both trial and...
Fostering Friendship with Your Boyfriend - Blessed Is She

Fostering Friendship with Your Boyfriend

Shortly after we started dating, my boyfriend told me that he wanted to be my best friend. It was important to him to have a true and deep friendship with...
When Your Faith is Lukewarm - Blessed Is She

When Your Faith is Lukewarm

Many of us have had the moment, the year, or the retreat when we just felt it. Felt Him. It might have been an amazing Bible study, devout friend, retreat,...
Helping Our Daughters Be Free and Confident - Blessed Is She

Helping Our Daughters Be Free and Confident

Throughout the Gospels, there seems to be a growing awareness, astonishment, and even discouragement in the disciples about how difficult it is to enter the kingdom of God: When the...