Don’t Make a Wish

Friday of the Eighteenth Week in Ordinary Time

Reading 1 Nahum 2:1, 3; 3:1-3, 6-7

See, upon the mountains there advances
the bearer of good news,
announcing peace!
Celebrate your feasts, O Judah,
fulfill your vows!
For nevermore shall you be invaded
by the scoundrel; he is completely destroyed.
The LORD will restore the vine of Jacob,
the pride of Israel,
Though ravagers have ravaged them
and ruined the tendrils.Woe to the bloody city, all lies,
full of plunder, whose looting never stops!
The crack of the whip, the rumbling sounds of wheels;
horses a-gallop, chariots bounding,
Cavalry charging, the flame of the sword, the flash of the spear,
the many slain, the heaping corpses,
the endless bodies to stumble upon!
I will cast filth upon you,
disgrace you and put you to shame;
Till everyone who sees you runs from you, saying,
“Nineveh is destroyed; who can pity her?
Where can one find any to console her?”

Responsorial Psalm Deuteronomy 32:35cd-36ab, 39abcd, 41

R. (39c) It is I who deal death and give life.
Close at hand is the day of their disaster,
and their doom is rushing upon them!
Surely, the LORD shall do justice for his people;
on his servants he shall have pity.
R. It is I who deal death and give life.
“Learn then that I, I alone, am God,
and there is no god besides me.
It is I who bring both death and life,
I who inflict wounds and heal them.”
R. It is I who deal death and give life.
I will sharpen my flashing sword,
and my hand shall lay hold of my quiver,
“With vengeance I will repay my foes
and requite those who hate me.”
R. It is I who deal death and give life.

Alleluia Matthew 5:10

R. Alleluia, alleluia.
Blessed are they who are persecuted for the sake of righteousness;
for theirs is the Kingdom of heaven.
R. Alleluia, alleluia.

Gospel Matthew 16:24-28

Jesus said to his disciples,
“Whoever wishes to come after me must deny himself,
take up his cross, and follow me.
For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it,
but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.
What profit would there be for one to gain the whole world
and forfeit his life?
Or what can one give in exchange for his life?
For the Son of Man will come with his angels in his Father’s glory,
and then he will repay each according to his conduct.
Amen, I say to you, there are some standing here
who will not taste death
until they see the Son of Man coming in his Kingdom.”

Readings for the Optional Memorial of Saint Cajetan, Priest
Readings for the Optional Memorial of Saint Sixtus II, Pope and Martyr, and his Companions, Martyrs

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August 8, 2026 // Memorial of Saint Dominic, Priest

Read the Word // Open your Bible to today’s Gospel: Matthew 17:14-20

Reflect on the Word //

I checked the patient portal once again for the test results. Is it too late to start praying for healing? The tests were run, the data was collected, and all I could do now was simply wait for the notification from the doctor. Or at least that is all I was doing.

When friends and family members get sick, I am quick to pray. Time before the Blessed Sacrament, Rosaries, and offering little sufferings are all ways that engage intercessory prayer for those who need healing. Yet when faced with my own small medical mysteries, I have taken the role of the investigator rather than the prayer warrior. I search with the misguided expectation that if I only work hard enough I will find the elusive answers.

My lack of faith leads me into the AI rabbit hole to discover ways of healing myself, rather than surrendering my fears and worries to my Loving God and waiting with patience.

Like the disciples in today’s Gospel, I am a woman whose faith is still insufficient. Not insufficient to work the miracle, because miracles are from God (not us), but rather insufficient in fully trusting the Lord that His will is best. Unanswered prayers can so often lead to anger, resentment, and disappointment, so it can seem safer to leave the prayer request unspoken. If I pray for healing and it doesn’t come, will the disappointment spark a spiritual revolt? I know that in my imperfect faith, sometimes I don’t pray because I am not ready to surrender the outcome.

When faced with deep desires, we petition the Lord, and surrender with faith that He will hear us. This does not mean that we expect Him to grant each wish like a genie in a bottle. We give Him our petition confident in His love for each of us, knowing that His plan is always best. A prayer isn’t a wish waiting to be granted. It is a conversation.

Relate to the Lord // Have a conversation with Jesus today. What do you want to share with Him?

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