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In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 31 - Blessed Is She

In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 31

Honoring the Sacred Heart in the world is a practice of both/and. We have interior work to do, which naturally permeates to the external, and back again. Already this week we have examined the ways that we might conform our hearts to the Sacred Heart through imitation and prayer, animated and nurtured by God’s deep love for us. The other half of this devotion is active...
In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 30 - Blessed Is She

In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 30

Recently, I was listening to a homily by Fr. Mike Schmitz in which he recounts a comment he heard by a choir member one morning at Mass. She leaned over and, looking out at the gathered community, whispered to her neighbor: “I see dead people.†You know what she means...
In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 29 - Blessed Is She

In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 29

There are two striking touch points that Pope St. John Paul II includes in this excerpt which I find comforting: encounter and the heart. Pope Francis has been describing a "culture of encounter" since the beginning of his papacy in 2013—the idea that we are changed by engaging our Faith in the world and the people in it. He says, “Whenever we encounter another person in love, we discover something new about God.†We know this to be true in our own experience, whether we can relate to these discoveries in terms of our best friends, or those whose opinions and perspectives challenge us most deeply. If we’re lucky, these attributes can be true of the same people...
Grace in the Wanting: Searching for a Unique + Intimate Relationship with Jesus - Blessed Is She

Grace in the Wanting: Searching for a Unique + Intimate Relationship with Jesus

Before I met my husband, I was so annoyed by people with boyfriends. They spent all their time together, talking nonstop, always considering what the other person wanted or thought....
In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 28 - Blessed Is She

In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 28

“The world will be saved by beauty,†we hear. These words consoled Dorothy Day, which tell us a great deal about the needs of the human spirit. In her houses of hospitality in New York City during the Great Depression and beyond, she witnessed the ugliness of poverty and addiction on a daily basis. She knew what it meant to long for and to be filled by beauty...
To Serve and Be Served - Blessed Is She

To Serve and Be Served

In the musical Wicked, the popular Galinda gives a makeover to her nerdy, offbeat roommate. Galinda presents herself as the fortunate, intelligent friend who, out of the kindness of her...
In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 27 - Blessed Is She

In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 27

There is a park I love and hate to take my kids to when it gets really hot. It is half awesome slides, half splash pad. As you can imagine, this is wildly popular among the families in our community, so it is always packed. I love it because my kids have a blast. I hate it because it is mentally exhausting to watch little ones up, down, and around all of the play equipment. Because, ultimately, I am afraid of them being separated and the accompanying feeling of fear that quickly follows until I can find them again...
In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 26 - Blessed Is She

In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 26

Two things washed over me as I listened to the lyrics of Matt Maher’s song, Garden...
Weekly Wallpaper // 212 - Blessed Is She

Weekly Wallpaper // 212

For Christ did not send me to baptize but to preach the gospel, and not with the wisdom of human eloquence, so that the cross of Christ might not be...
In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 25 - Blessed Is She

In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 25

Upon becoming a new dad, a friend of mine described the experience of bringing a new baby into a room as inviting all occupants to a "baby campfire." I instantly knew what he meant. Instinctively, we know to gather, to see with new eyes, and allow ourselves to become transfixed on the thing of beauty before us...
How I Pray with My Husband - Blessed Is She

How I Pray with My Husband

For a long time, my husband and I didn’t pray together the way we do now. We’d been together in prayer a lot, praying side by side at church, sharing...
In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 24 - Blessed Is She

In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 24

In the year 1675, the pocket watch was patented, integral calculus was introduced and, most relevant for us and our Faith, Jesus appeared to St. Margaret Mary Alacoque to share His love for souls and His desire for a Feast of the Sacred Heart. He also asked specifically for a devotion of the Nine First Fridays in reparation for all the offenses against His Sacred Heart...