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In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 18 - Blessed Is She

In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 18

I’m a checklist gal. I love the satisfaction of making a list, methodically crossing things off. And yes, I am one of those people that adds an item to my list that I’ve already completed, just so I can check it off. Here’s what I’m learning when it comes to the Christian life, though...
The Humility of Asking for Prayers for Yourself - Blessed Is She

The Humility of Asking for Prayers for Yourself

Within my own life, there are a few common sentiments expressed in everyday life that make my heart twinge with sharp little pains every time I hear them. Things like...
In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 17 - Blessed Is She

In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 17

I didn’t grow up with an image of the Sacred Heart of Jesus in my house, and there wasn’t one in my parish. As a young girl, I didn’t even hear the words “Sacred Heart.†The one exception: my grandmother belonged to the “Sacred Heart Auto League,†and had an emblem on her car...
In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 16 - Blessed Is She

In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 16

“Close your eyes after Holy Communion,†Father Andrew instructed. “Let yourself feel the loving embrace of Jesus.†I try to remain attentive to the presence of Jesus after receiving Holy Communion. I believe with all my heart that His precious Body, Blood, Soul, and Divinity dwell within me in a special way. As a mom of six, however, I often have to spend this time with one eye open, making sure my children stay relatively quiet, while our parish community prays around us...
In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 15 - Blessed Is She

In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 15

I walk with my friend. We’re set on finally finding Jesus. We’ve heard Him speak. We’ve seen Him heal. If only we could get close enough…
Cultivating Virtuous Community - Blessed Is She

Cultivating Virtuous Community

Community is something we need at all walks of our faith life. Whether we are searching for the Truth and are shown the love of God from our friends around...
In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 14 - Blessed Is She

In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 14

The air in the chapel contains an allure, powerful yet gentle. And I am drawn into the intensity of God’s love for me. It is so present, so tangible. It is almost overwhelming. But am I just being silly, like a girl being wooed by a handsome prince in some fairy tale?...
In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 13 - Blessed Is She

In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 13

Several years ago, I had an ongoing vision in my Christian imagination of Jesus and me on a playground. When the image first entered my prayer, I asked, “On a playground, Lord? Really?†And in reply, Jesus laughed! And with a glimmer in His eye and a warm smile across His face, He extended His hand in invitation...
In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 12 - Blessed Is She

In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 12

The pain and suffering were like nothing I had ever endured. I could not believe how much had been given and taken away in such a short amount of time. It felt unbearable...
Why You Should Pray the 54-Day Rosary Novena - Blessed Is She

Why You Should Pray the 54-Day Rosary Novena

Last year, my husband Mike and I went through a period of time when we didn’t pray together. It was disastrous. Thank God that time was short lived; but we...
In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 11 - Blessed Is She

In His Heart: The 2020 Prayer Pledge // Day 11

As I enter the chapel, I immediately notice that I’m not alone. The presence of Another is so real, so palpable; it fills the entire space. I kneel down before Jesus, truly present in the Holy Eucharist, housed in the beautiful gold monstrance upon the altar. I feel His eyes on me, and He smiles. He has been waiting for me...
How to Choose Godparents for Your Child - Blessed Is She

How to Choose Godparents for Your Child

I was so excited when my sister and brother-in-law asked my brother and I to be godparents to their first child, Xavier. As all of us are practicing Catholics, my...