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How to Listen to the Spirit (Instead of the Flippant Opinions of Others) in Your Vocational Discernment - Blessed Is She

How to Listen to the Spirit (Instead of the Flippant Opinions of Others) in Your Vocational Discernment

I started going to daily Mass when I was in college and continued doing so over my summer breaks. There, I encountered an unexpected hurdle: the other regular Mass attendees...
While We Wait, We are Restless - Blessed Is She

While We Wait, We are Restless

Sometimes, restlessness consumes us. Have you ever caught yourself tapping your phone awake every other minute awaiting a response? Refreshing your email every 90 seconds in anticipation? Perhaps you find...
How to Remain Prayerful While Traveling - Blessed Is She

How to Remain Prayerful While Traveling

Summer is here, and many of us have trips or vacations on the horizon. Think back to your last vacation or holiday. You probably created some great memories then, but...
6 Modest Dresses for Summer (That are Ethically-Made) - Blessed Is She

6 Modest Dresses for Summer (That are Ethically-Made)

I address a heartfelt appeal that the logic of profit not prevail, but rather that of solidarity and justice. At the center of every situation, especially work-related, should be the...
Discerning Foster Parenting - Blessed Is She

Discerning Foster Parenting

Discernment is different for everyone. We all walk such a unique path in our journey to Heaven. I stood in my bedroom, the hanger forgotten in my hand as I...
What is Your Plan for Me? - Blessed Is She

What is Your Plan for Me?

I’m a planner. I need to have a plan for every little detail or I get stressed. I don’t like not knowing what’s going on. Scheduling things relaxes me. So...
Practicing Humility in an Achievement-Driven Culture - Blessed Is She

Practicing Humility in an Achievement-Driven Culture

Ever notice how the virtues we pray for grow in proportion to the number of times they’re tested? It’s common sense, really, but somehow it always still seems to surprise...
Setting Out with Mary - Blessed Is She

Setting Out with Mary

Growing up, I was never Marian. My mother was and my grandmother, even more so. In high school, I was surrounded by the Protestant mindset, and therefore, lost a fair...
There is No Rule Book in Parenting - Blessed Is She

There is No Rule Book in Parenting

On the day you were born, God gave your parents a rule book. It gave them all the instruction necessary for raising their specific child. Ever thoughtful, He replaced it...
Offering Warmth - Blessed Is She

Offering Warmth

Whenever my younger brother comes over to our house to visit us, one of the first things he does is grab our largest, fluffiest blankets so he can curl up...
3 Ethical Closet Staples - Blessed Is She

3 Ethical Closet Staples

Fashion affects so many lives, from the farmers growing and picking the cotton for your favorite t-shirt, to the garment workers sewing your jeans. There are a lot of human...
National Champion - Blessed Is She

National Champion

It was 2 a.m. and I couldn’t sleep. Granted, my team and I had just won a national championship a few hours ago, but I knew that that wasn’t the...