Hospitality Has To Cost You Something

Memorial of Saints Cornelius, Pope, and Cyprian, Bishop, Martyrs

Reading 1 1 Corinthians 12:31-13:13

Brothers and sisters:
Strive eagerly for the greatest spiritual gifts.

But I shall show you a still more excellent way.

If I speak in human and angelic tongues
but do not have love,
I am a resounding gong or a clashing cymbal.
And if I have the gift of prophecy
and comprehend all mysteries and all knowledge;
if I have all faith so as to move mountains,
but do not have love, I am nothing.
If I give away everything I own,
and if I hand my body over so that I may boast
but do not have love, I gain nothing.

Love is patient, love is kind.
It is not jealous, love is not pompous,
it is not inflated, it is not rude,
it does not seek its own interests,
it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury,
it does not rejoice over wrongdoing
but rejoices with the truth.
It bears all things, believes all things,
hopes all things, endures all things.

Love never fails.
If there are prophecies, they will be brought to nothing;
if tongues, they will cease;
if knowledge, it will be brought to nothing.
For we know partially and we prophesy partially,
but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away.
When I was a child, I used to talk as a child,
think as a child, reason as a child;
when I became a man, I put aside childish things.
At present we see indistinctly, as in a mirror,
but then face to face.
At present I know partially;
then I shall know fully, as I am fully known.
So faith, hope, love remain, these three;
but the greatest of these is love.
 

Responsorial Psalm Psalm 33:2-3, 4-5, 12 and 22

R. (12) Blessed the people the Lord has chosen to be his own.
Give thanks to the LORD on the harp;
with the ten stringed lyre chant his praises.
Sing to him a new song;
pluck the strings skillfully, with shouts of gladness.
R. Blessed the people the Lord has chosen to be his own.
For upright is the word of the LORD,
and all his works are trustworthy.
He loves justice and right;
of the kindness of the LORD the earth is full.
R. Blessed the people the Lord has chosen to be his own.
Blessed the nation whose God is the LORD,
the people he has chosen for his own inheritance.
May your kindness, O LORD, be upon us
who have put our hope in you.
R. Blessed the people the Lord has chosen to be his own.

Alleluia See John 6:63c, 68c

R. Alleluia, alleluia.
Your words, Lord, are Spirit and life,
you have the words of everlasting life.
R. Alleluia, alleluia.
 

Gospel Luke 7:31-35

Jesus said to the crowds:
“To what shall I compare the people of this generation?
What are they like?
They are like children who sit in the marketplace and call to one another,

‘We played the flute for you, but you did not dance.
We sang a dirge, but you did not weep.’

For John the Baptist came neither eating food nor drinking wine,
and you said, ‘He is possessed by a demon.’
The Son of Man came eating and drinking and you said,
‘Look, he is a glutton and a drunkard,
a friend of tax collectors and sinners.’
But wisdom is vindicated by all her children.”
 

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Hospitality Has To Cost You Something

September 17, 2026 // Thursday of the Twenty-fourth Week in Ordinary Time

Read the Word // Open your Bible to today’s Gospel: Luke 7:36-50

Reflect on the Word // 

Hospitality is a big deal in Mexican culture. It is embedded in our DNA. When I started dating my now husband, it was something he learned immediately. He understood that if my mom was cooking that he would need to find a way to be hungry even if he wasn’t. My husband gained “happy weight” during those first couple of months that we were dating. My mom’s breakfast burritos filled with papas and chorizo were not optional. 

Homemade food is a way of saying, “Welcome! Sit down. I made time for you through this meal. I would like to get to know you by the way you receive and respond to hospitality.” A good indicator of the compatibility of a relationship is how a person treats you and connects with you when you are hosting them. It is one of the traits I highly value being Mexican-American and even now as a wife and mother it is something I carry with me wherever I go. 

In today’s Gospel we read about a Pharisee who invites Jesus to dine with him but he comes up short as a good host (see Luke 7:36-50). The sinful woman in the city who learns that Jesus is at the table with the Pharisee is quick to arrive prepared. She takes an alabaster flask of ointment, bathes Jesus’ feet with her tears, wipes them with her hair, kisses them, and anoints them with the ointment. This woman understands hospitality. 

The Pharisee welcomes Jesus, but his hospitality is limited and has conditions. He isn’t willing to allow it to cost him something. The Greek word for hospitality is philoxena which translates to “love of strangers.” Throughout the Bible, Jesus shows us how much He enjoys sitting and being among strangers. 

Sister, this is our call too. Can we have this philoxena? We are called to a radical love which asks us to give of ourselves without measure. How can we be more authentic in the way we offer hospitality?  It doesn’t have to be audacious; it can be as simple as a homemade breakfast burrito. 

Relate to the Lord // To whom can you offer hospitality to today? What might that look like?

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