Today we are talking about EXPECTATIONS. Are the expectations you have placed in your life bringing you closer to Christ and your fellow man? Or are they creating a rigidness in your heart that makes it difficult to truly love? You can find all the themes here. Welcome to the #BISsisterhood link-up. Every Thursday, we get together as one community to share our hearts. Here's how you can participate: Link-up a post that goes with the weekly theme. Share your thoughts of the theme on Instagram/Twitter/Facebook using #BISsisterhood so we can see each other's posts. Comment below with your thoughts on the prompt. Basically, let's talk to each other. Remember to use #BISsisterhood so we can all communicate well with each other out in the social media world. [bctt tweet="The #BISsisterhood link-up is where it's at. I just added my post here:"] Here is the button to our link-up that you are more than welcome to place on your blog, share on your social media, and/or save for a rainy day. An InLinkz Link-up

When I look back on October 12, 2013, the day the love of my life and I became one, I chuckle to myself… we had NO clue what we were saying yes to that day! And I thank God for that, because had we known, we honestly might have been too afraid or selfish to say yes. But we did say yes, albeit a bit blindly. What a glorious day our wedding was! Surrounded by such support, love and prayers from the people we hold most dear. Everything was incredible and perfect and lived up to my expectations. “Yep, marriage is going to be a piece of cake,” I thought to myself as my hubby whisked me away to our idyllic honeymoon. Upon returning home, I had big expectations for my marriage and my husband. Oh man, did I have expectations. The funny thing is, I didn’t see these expectations as being unrealistic....until they weren’t being met. I would complain to myself, “Matt has to work late…again?” “He didn’t think to plan a date night every Friday and Saturday night?” “He didn’t think to bring me home flowers just because?” And then, naturally, I would act cold and harsh towards him because he wasn’t performing the way I thought husbands should perform. God bless him and his patient heart. Unrealistic expectations (whether we acknowledge them or not) will suffocate a marriage to death. They are a real temptation that the sneaky Devil places in our minds and hearts. He makes us feel absolutely justified for having them. Unrealistic expectations put spouses at odds against each other. They turn a spouse inward to distract from serving the other, and instead they serve the self. Both men and women are guilty of this, but I can only give you my perspective as a wife. Then, God gave us our sweet baby girl, Gianna Grace, just one week before we were to celebrate our first anniversary. We were elated and overwhelmed, excited and terrified. My husband had just begun his Masters program, we moved into a new house in a small town with NO family or friends, and he had an hour commute to and from work. We decided that the best thing for our family was for me to stay home with our girl. It’s a gift that I am forever grateful for, but oh man, no one ever warned me about the HARD work that motherhood entails. The sleepless nights, being on constant demand, no breaks, and don’t get me started on the pile of dishes and never ending laundry. In addition to what felt like an endless list of tasks as a new mother, I was starting to feel alone. Matt would leave in the mornings around 6am and not get home until 10pm. When he was home, he had to work on school work until 1am, crash for a couple of hours, and get up the next morning to do it all over again. Instead of seeing his hard work and long hours as his part in providing for our family and allowing me the gift of staying home with our daughter, I only saw the ways he was not assisting my needs and expectations. I started asking myself questions like, “Do I really have to do all the night feedings?” “Does he need me to make dinner every night?” and “When do I get to take a shower?” Right on cue, the resentment started to build. FAST. Until one night we found ourselves arguing over whose responsibility it was to replace the empty toilet paper roll! We had hit an all-time low. He looked at me with his exhausted eyes and said, “Honey, I can’t do this. I can’t be the husband and father that you have created in your mind. I am trying my hardest and I need your support. It won’t always be like this, but I need you to please see the bigger picture.” SILENCE. Lump in throat. Head down. Oh Lord, who have I become? How did I get here? So I got to praying and God got to mending my heart and filling my soul. He quickly helped me see that I had very unrealistic expectations for my husband, our marriage and our role as parents. And they had to be readjusted quickly! God had revealed that my thinking came from my naïve, immature ideals. I begged Him to give me a servant’s heart for my husband. I wanted to see past my own needs, and instead look for ways to take care of my husband’s. Rather than expecting my husband to fulfill all of my heart’s longing and desires, I begged God to fill them. Because really, He is the only one who ever could. With this new realization, I felt empowered and reenergized. One night I received a text from Matt. He would be getting home late because of work. I did something I had never done before. My usual response would have been to make him feel guilty for staying late. However this time, I put his needs before mine and I thought to myself, “Poor guy doesn’t want to be at work until 9pm with an hour long commute, only to then come home and do school work!” I replied, “I’m so sorry honey. I love you and can’t wait to see you when you get home. I’ll have dinner ready for you.” When he got home, I greeted him with a big kiss, a warm smile and a hot meal. You should have seen the look on his face. It makes my eyes swell with tears even thinking about. He was so grateful. And he held onto me, and we embraced for a long time. Slowly, and I mean sloooowly, I am learning that marriage is NOT about my husband meeting my ideals and expectations. I mean, I always knew that. But knowing something and living it out are very different things. Rather, I have a new understanding that we are to serve one another as Christ serves His church. Our marriage, our home and our family are as holy and Christ-like as we allow. Each time I refuse to give in to a selfish expectation, it strengthens our foundation and shows my husband that I am in this journey with him and that we’re a team. Admittedly, some days are better than others, and God knows I stumble and fall, but with His grace, the good days are starting to outweigh the bad ones. My husband is doing his part, which requires hard work, long hours, and late nights. And I am doing my part, which requires taking care of our daughter and our little home. Letting go of my unrealistic expectations has freed me to love and serve my husband in a new way. It’s this real love--love without expectations or demands--which makes our marriage come alive. [bctt tweet="Our marriage and our family are as holy and Christ-like as we allow."] photo by Corynne Olivia Brooke Garibaldi is a Catholic wife and mama loving the small town life in gorgeous wine country, discovering His blessings in every day life!

Well, hello there. My name is Siobhan, and I am a lifestyle and wedding photographer who has a heart for people and their stories. These days, in the midst of so much communication, I feel like many of us can feel oh-so-isolated. This is why the Blessed is She community is so amazing–it’s a place where strong Catholic women can come together and share each other’s prayers, successes, sufferings, and joys. We can build each other up and continually remember that we are not doing this alone. That is why I decided to make it my mission to share the stories of YOU–the women who make up the kingdom of God. I am going to be sharing little peeks into the lives of Catholic women, who just like you, are trying to do their best. [bctt tweet="This is the Sisterhood Campaign. This is a reminder to you that we can do it together."] Becky Callaway // College Student // New Orleans, LA Could you describe your faith? I have always been Catholic, but I really started developing my faith after going to college. I think something I learned is that faith is hard, and it takes effort. You have to find where you can worship God in your daily life. I had to start learning how to see Him and the beauty of His creation in everything. How would you define beauty? I think that beauty itself is something that is felt more than seen. I think it is when you can look at something and feel God’s presence. Really anything that brings you closer to Him. It is when you feel joy or happiness in anything. One thing I love is being able to look for it every single day. I love sunrises and stars because there are similarities in the beauty God creates, but it is also so very different. I can look at a perfect sunrise and see God’s glory, but every one is completely unique. Just like people. Three reasons why you think you’re beautiful: 1. I'm a joyful person. I am very optimistic and try to find happiness in everything. 2. I’ve become a more caring and loving person. I've learned a lot about being compassionate. 3. I’ve been teaching and coaching about music. Being able to teach your gifts makes you beautiful. Can you speak a little bit about your faith in college? I run track, and being an athlete in college can sometimes make it difficult to pursue my faith. It is hard to be in an environment of the world where everything is considered acceptable and there is no moral grounding. It can be easy for you to stand up for your faith at the beginning, but when you do not have a community that supports you in your beliefs, it is really easy to fall away. It was hard for me to find people that understood and supported me in my decisions so living out my faith to the fullest was less of a priority for me at times. What about your biggest struggle? I think for me it was not going out of my way to find a sisterhood in Christ. I thought that I could do it all on my own, and I learned quickly that I could not. I became so weak in my faith because my heart was not in it, and it was so important for me to find other people, especially women, that I could talk about it with. I think that not keeping everything bottled up inside, talking about issues, and then making corrections based on good conversations has really helped me become stronger in my faith. I think that the concept that “I am not as bad as they are” can really hurt people of faith. I know that I struggled with that at times and I needed to really dig deep to find the humility to ask for help. How do you combat those struggles or continue to try to pursue your faith? Well, because I am a distance runner, I have a lot of time in my head while training long miles. Track is definitely a mental sport, and so when I am in those times of intense training, I pray rosaries or talk to God as I run. It’s a great way to work on physical perseverance as well as mental and spiritual training. Being able to connect my faith to my physical sport has allowed me to try to train my heart as a I do my body. What do you admire most in a friendship? People that keep you honest. It is so hard to try and be a faithful person on your own without community. You need people who are able to encourage you positively without tearing you down. What do you think it means to be in a sisterhood and why is it important? I preferred to hang out with guys over girls because I didn’t pursue Catholic women friendships. But now I think that being able to find women who are helping you grow in your femininity is so important. Realizing that you can still be strong in the gentle beauty. Having other women who are there to help you support that. Having women who are gentle, kind, loving and not judgmental. What advice do you think other women need to hear today? There is strength in femininity. We can change the world through other women and men. We must embrace those unique features God gave us, because we make the world a more beautiful place. What do 20somethings need to hear? A lot of girls in their 20’s are longing for a relationship. As women and people in general, we need to start to grow more as God made us. God’s going to point us in that direction when we start to focus on just Him. Focus your whole life on Christ, and your goals as an individual will fall into place. 5 random facts: 1. I'm a dog person over a cat person. 2. I love sunsets and sunrises and start SKY. 3. I’ve always wanted to be a scientist on Shark Week. 4. Playing music has always been a pastime. 5. I love going for long drives. Your turn. What do you think it means to be in a sisterhood and why is it important? photos and brilliant idea courtesy of Siobhan Lorraine Photography

  This weekly wallpaper is from Erica of Be a Heart. It comes from today's gospel reading, Mark 8. He summoned the crowd with his disciples and said to them, “Whoever wishes to come after me must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me. For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake and that of the gospel will save it. The design mimics a paper cut out. Download this wallpaper for your phone or desktop for free below. You can also support the Blessed Is She community by purchasing it in a printable format in our shop. Phone wallpaper Desktop wallpaper

Today we are talking about DAILY. Sometimes the way we go through our days just seem so .... daily. But are there hidden blessings and lessons to be learned in that monotony that makes up our quotidian lives? You can find all the themes here. Welcome to the #BISsisterhood link-up. Every Thursday, we get together as one community to share our hearts. Here's how you can participate: Link-up a post that goes with the weekly theme. Share your thoughts of the theme on Instagram/Twitter/Facebook using #BISsisterhood so we can see each other's posts. Comment below with your thoughts on the prompt. Basically, let's talk to each other. Remember to use #BISsisterhood so we can all communicate well with each other out in the social media world. [bctt tweet="The #BISsisterhood link-up is where it's at. I just added my post here:"] Here is the button to our link-up that you are more than welcome to place on your blog, share on your social media, and/or save for a rainy day. An InLinkz Link-up

So many stories feature heroes who were born for their adventure. And as a Catholic, I encounter so many saints that seem to have innately known exactly what they were called to do and who they were called to be with stunning confidence. But then I ask that nagging question: What about me? Day in, day out, the patterns of my life can feel rote and aimless. The morning hustle to get myself on the train to work with everything I need for the day in hand. The struggle to fit it all in and still get the dishes done. So ordinary, so mundane. Are these the moments I was born to live? Is this the whole purpose for my life? Should I be doing something else? Something more? Quietly, so quietly, God is putting me at ease, settling me even without the answers to my questions. A meeting with my spiritual director: be aware. Keeping my eyes open to wonder in even the most frustrating day is a prayer, a connection to God. A simple homily: keeping Christ in my plans. When looking ahead on my schedule, instead of doing a quick mental rundown, I can let Jesus know what I’m up to on both my simplest and most complicated days. And noticing litanies everywhere - from a favorite song (“I Shall Not Want”) to a recommendation for the Litany of Humility. What if I could take these repetitive days and turn them toward God - a litany of actions and awareness in this busy and cyclical time of my life? God knows where I am, where these days are leading me. “Do not worry about tomorrow,” Jesus says in the gospel of Matthew; “tomorrow will take care of itself.” I can only give God today - every day, over and over again in a litany of adoration, confession, thanksgiving, supplication. Even those holy role models haven’t been born with a roadmap to heaven stamped on the inside of their eyelids. A prayer of Thomas Merton opens: “My Lord God, I have no idea where I am going. I do not see the road ahead of me. I cannot know for certain where it will end.” What lies ahead? God only knows. And I don’t mean that idiomatically - truly, only God knows for what I have been created. And for that I am thankful. I don’t have to figure it out on my own. This road has a destination. I don’t know what it will look like, but I know that God is readying me to arrive, shaping me to his mysterious plans. [bctt tweet="Are these the moments I was born to live?"] Brigid Hogan is a 20-something Midwesterner living in downtown Washington, DC, with a growing collection of houseplants. She enjoys reading, podcasts, and making friends with dogs.

Today's weekly wallpaper was hand painted by Tara of Frameworthy Designs. She chose the simple line that Jesus groaned in the gospel today, Mark 7:34, “Ephphatha!”— that is, “Be opened!” First Jesus takes the deaf man to a spot alone. He looks to heaven and he says, "be opened." Jesus looks to heaven. So many times in my own life I pray and just look to myself. I think the result will come from my own doing, even though, I am sort of asking God to take care of it. But God says, "be opened." In our daily lives, we must be open to his heavenly work. To the miracles that he can perform in our lives and in that openness we must look to heaven. You can put this reminder on your phone or desktop by downloading them below. You can also purchase the design "ready to print" in our shop, which helps support our ministry. Phone wallpaper Desktop wallpaper

Today we are talking about LABOR. We labor at the tasks placed before us. We labor at the striving toward sanctity. We labor daily. We labor at home, at work, at school, in many areas of our life. But is our labor one of joy? You can find all the themes here. We're happy to announce the themes for the month of October! October 1: WHOLENESS October 8: LIVING FAITH October 15: GOD'S TIMING October 22: THE WAY October 29: COMMUNION OF SAINTS Welcome to the #BISsisterhood link-up. Every Thursday, we get together as one community to share our hearts. Here's how you can participate: Link-up a post that goes with the weekly theme. Share your thoughts of the theme on Instagram/Twitter/Facebook using #BISsisterhood so we can see each other's posts. Comment below with your thoughts on the prompt. Basically, let's talk to each other. Remember to use #BISsisterhood so we can all communicate well with each other out in the social media world. [bctt tweet="The #BISsisterhood link-up is where it's at. I just added my post here:"] Here is the button to our link-up that you are more than welcome to place on your blog, share on your social media, and/or save for a rainy day. An InLinkz Link-up

It’s amazing how things come full circle. As a kid I used to dread Sunday Mass. I had no idea what was going on, it was long, and it was boring. I was only in it for the donuts at the end (no surprise there if you know me). As I grew in age and in faith, that all changed. Around my 8th grade year, I just fell in love with the Mass. It happened sweetly, simply, and quickly. Suddenly, I couldn’t get enough. This love for the Mass only grew through the years. Up until a couple of years ago, Sunday Mass was such an amazing experience--a chance for me to recharge and draw close to the Lord. But now...oh, now, how I dread it. Sunday Mass with three kids under three is a BATTLE and so incredibly frustrating. I can’t remember what the readings were, I barely catch the homily, and I just can’t focus. I no longer walk away feeling recharged, but empty and broken instead. Last Sunday, my husband and I were knee deep in toddler meltdowns and diaper explosions. It was all I could do to keep from just bursting into tears. Then I found myself talking to God in my heart saying “Why?! Why are you doing this to me? I am a good Catholic and I have loved you so much throughout my whole life. I have done everything correctly. I have done everything you asked. Why are you putting me through this? Why do I feel like you are pushing me away? We say the rosary almost every day and do night prayers with the boys. So why do I feel punished instead of rewarded?! WHY?!” The words in my heart shocked me. There have only been a few times that I have ever angrily talked with God. But I didn’t follow up with a “Forgive me Lord!” Nope. I just left it there, floating between my heart and the Sacred Heart. I hadn’t even realized that these feelings were within me. It was all true though. I couldn’t understand why Sunday Mass had become such a painful time. It wasn’t supposed to be that way; I’m doing all the right things! After a few days to think about what happened, I realized it needed to be put on paper. I journaled it all and thought about the implications of this realization. I came to the conclusions that even when you’re doing “all the right things” and even when you’re a “textbook Catholic,” there will still be struggles. I know that I already knew this in my heart, but this is the first time I was actually experiencing it. I also realized that this isn’t a “motherhood issue.” It’s a human issue. There are many times in life when we think that we are doing everything as we should and then God puts a roadblock in our way and we simply can’t understand: Why? Why are we punished even though we’ve followed the instructions to a T? I can’t pretend to have the answer. I do know that I’m not supposed to stop the family rosary or night prayers just because I can’t get my kids to behave in Mass. We aren’t supposed to stop living for the Lord just because things aren’t going our way. At that point, it’s time to analyze why we are living the life we are. Are we truly living for God or are we just living to reap the “benefits” that we think come with living that life? That’s some tough inner reflection. I’d be lying if I said it didn’t scare me to look that deeply. I know that we are called to keep going, to push through the pain. We have to trust that the suffering we are going through is only making us stronger. Easier said then done. Believe me, I know. Telling you that the suffering is worth it in the end isn’t going to make anything any easier. If anything, I just hope that this can be a note of encouragement. As an English Lit. major I liken life to an epic poem and epics always come full circle. There will be a time when I walk out of Mass and not feel like I’ve just run a marathon. It will come back around. It will. In the meantime, I have to just keep the faith and remember that I’m living for God out of love, not for the reward of well-behaved children or a put-together life. [bctt tweet="We have to trust that the suffering we are going through is only making us stronger."] Susana Starbuck is a wife, mother, coffee drinker and Instagram lover. She blogs over at Barista Mommy and runs her dream business Little Flowers Studios.

Ah, what a beautiful reminder in today's second reading from James 1:17, All good giving and every perfect gift is from above. I'd never noticed the first part of that verse, all good giving. It's not just the gifts that come from him, but also our giving. It is not me who gives of myself, but he who gives through me. This week, let's be conscious of the gifts that we have in our lives. How do you like to cultivate gratitude in your daily routine? Do you make a gratitude list or have a specific moment in the day where you mentally note the things you are grateful for? You can download the weekly wallpaper made by Erica of Be A Heart below or you can purchase the printable version here. Phone wallpaper Desktop wallpaper

Today we are talking about POWER OF PRAYER. St. John Chrysostom once stated, "Prayer is the place of refuge for every worry, a foundation for cheerfulness, a source of constant happiness, a protection against sadness." There is so much bound up in prayer--in conversation with God. Be sure to make it a source of strength in your life! You can find all the themes here. Welcome to the #BISsisterhood link-up. Every Thursday, we get together as one community to share our hearts. Here's how you can participate: Link-up a post that goes with the weekly theme. Share your thoughts of the theme on Instagram/Twitter/Facebook using #BISsisterhood so we can see each other's posts. Comment below with your thoughts on the prompt. Basically, let's talk to each other. Remember to use #BISsisterhood so we can all communicate well with each other out in the social media world. [bctt tweet="The #BISsisterhood link-up is where it's at. I just added my post here:"] Here is the button to our link-up that you are more than welcome to place on your blog, share on your social media, and/or save for a rainy day. An InLinkz Link-up

Prayer can be a very interesting thing. It can comes easily to some; it can be a wrestling match for others. Most often, it falls in the middle for a lot of people, varying from day to day. Some days it’s easy and some days it’s a real struggle. Many times it feels like there is simply no time. Whether you’re a student, a full-time employee, or a professional stay-at-home mom, life is crazy-busy from the moment you wake up until you call it a night. Personally, as a college student, I have a daily routine. In some ways, I'm a perfectionist. If my day suddenly and unexpectedly changes, I freak out. Usually it goes something like this: "Wait??? I’m sorry. I didn’t put this down in my planner!” My biggest issue was seeing past that anxiety. Once I got past that issue, my days were still far from perfect, but I was freaking out a lot less. I replaced those “freak outs” with some serious thoughts about my faith and how I was using my spare time. We all have those moments of inspiration where we become super on-fire for our faith. There is an intense desire to grow spiritually, to read more scripture, to pray more often. But when it actually comes to doing it? Staying in our bed and watching Netflix or hitting the snooze button instead of going to Mass sounds a lot better. When I think back on my competitive swimming years, I remember all my double day practices where I had a 5:15am workout and a two hour practice later that evening. I’d push my body to perform like a champion. I wanted to be a champion, so I practiced like one. If we personally think that something will change us, we always find time to do it. For instance, I found time to always swim. [bctt tweet="If we personally think that something will change us, we always find time to do it."] So who says it can’t be the same for our spiritual life? Fr. Mike Schmitz, in a video I was listening to recently, mentions that many of us who struggle with finding time for prayer use that as a red herring. The real issue is that we don't always see it as worth our time or we quit praying when it doesn't seem to "work." We wonder: Will God really fight for us? Fr. Mike speaks of the story in the Bible where the Israelites are being chased by Pharaoh and his powerful army, all the while God is speaking through Moses. He says that Moses answered the people, “Do not be afraid. Stand firm and you will see the deliverance the Lord will bring you today. The Egyptians you see today you will never see again. The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.” (Exodus 14:13-14) Let me repeat that last sentence “The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.” Fr. Mike went on to say that it doesn’t mean we should just sit back and let God do all our work, or be lazy about our spiritual life. We can't be of the mindset that we have so much going on and if we stop to pray we will lose time or momentum. Rather, we will only gain in those moments. I really took this verse to heart this week. Immediately, all times where I could have been praying flashed through my eyes. That doesn't mean I was in prayer 24/7. While this would be a beautiful life to live, it's unrealistic. God created us to work and fulfill our duties whatever they may be. He wants us to do them all faithfully. But I did find a way to make my whole day one, giant prayer. I found that by offering my day entirely to Jesus in the morning, by giving him all my joys and sorrows, I could make everything I experienced throughout the day a prayer. St. John Vianney once said about the importance of prayer: “Never forget that it is at the beginning of each day that God has the necessary grace for the day ready for us. He knows exactly what opportunities we shall have to sin, and will give us everything we need if we ask him then.” So I invite you, my sisters in Christ, to find out what it is exactly that might be holding you back. Challenge yourself to pray scripture, pray the rosary, do a morning offering, or even set a time on your phone to remind you to say a short prayer like: “Jesus I trust in you”, or “God I give you my day do as you wish” or my personal favorite: “God I give up. You take care of it.” To pray like a champion you have to first train like one. "Be careful for nothing; but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God." - Philippians 4:6 Marisa is just a girl aspiring to be the patron saint of awkward situations. She’s a student at Ave Maria University and a lover of the light. She hopes to help make a difference in girls’ lives by showing them that they’re enough, and they’re loved. She has her own fashion + lifestyle blog, A Beautiful Mystery, and she really loves Chipotle. photo by Corynne Olivia HIS WORD CHANGES LIVES God is speaking to you through His Word. In this personal study, you will learn to hear God's voice by reading slowly and praying deeply. BEGIN THE JOURNEY

This week we get a design from another BIS Sister, Lauren from Brick House in the City. We are always so humbled by the way all of the women in this community serve the Lord in your homes and your lives. This verse from today's first reading couldn't be more true, As for me in my house, we will serve the Lord. Joshua 24:15 You can buy a printable version here or download the free desktop and phone wallpapers below! Phone wallpaper Desktop wallpaper

Today we are talking about DISCERNMENT. Discernment is not merely discovering your vocation. Discernment is ongoing process. It takes place daily, in the every day moments and the life-altering ones. You can find all the themes here. Welcome to the #BISsisterhood link-up. Every Thursday, we get together as one community to share our hearts. Here's how you can participate: Link-up a post that goes with the weekly theme. Share your thoughts of the theme on Instagram/Twitter/Facebook using #BISsisterhood so we can see each other's posts. Comment below with your thoughts on the prompt. Basically, let's talk to each other. Remember to use #BISsisterhood so we can all communicate well with each other out in the social media world. [bctt tweet="The #BISsisterhood link-up is where it's at. I just added my post here:"] Here is the button to our link-up that you are more than welcome to place on your blog, share on your social media, and/or save for a rainy day. An InLinkz Link-up

“What is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?” –Mary Oliver My husband is out of town traveling this week and as luck would have it, the stomach flu has struck both my infant and my toddler in the middle of the night. Tomorrow is one of the two days I work this week and as I sit in the dark rocking my sick baby, a range of thoughts, emotions, and questions run through my head: I have no choice but to stay home tomorrow. Why does this have to happen on one of the days I work? How will my boss and coworkers react? Why am I feeling so guilty about staying home? Why do I even work? I don’t work because my family needs the money or because I don’t have a desire to stay at home with the kids. I work because I feel that God has called me to my professional vocation as an occupational therapist. In college I spent a lot of time in prayer, discerning the career path that would use my talents to serve God. As an occupational therapist, I work with children with disabilities to help them learn valuable skills and participate in meaningful life activities as independently as possible. I love my job and I consider it to be a good fit between my God-given talents and the needs of God’s world. However, at the time I was discerning my vocation in college, I had no idea how motherhood would affect me years later. I’ve only been a mom for a couple of years, but when my daughter was born, motherhood instantly became my most important vocation. Mothering my children has affected me in a way that I never could have imagined and has reignited my commitment to God as I desire to share the Catholic faith with my children. In times when my professional vocation threatens to interfere with motherhood, I often find myself worried that I misunderstood God’s call. I doubt my belief that God called me to this career. Juggling work and motherhood is so stressful at times that I don’t feel that I do either of my vocations justice and I wonder how this could be part of God’s plan. I know I sometimes make the mistake of thinking that the process of vocational discernment is a test, with a “good” answer and a “bad” answer, as if God has a plan for us and it is up to us to correctly identify this plan, or else risk making a big mistake. Someone once gave me the excellent advice that sometimes when discerning God’s call we may be choosing between “good” and “good.” Religious life and motherhood, for example, are both good choices. How could either be wrong? Stay at home mothering and mothering while also working full or part time can all be good choices. Discernment isn’t always black and white, and in my case, I’m living in a world of gray. I often tell my husband that I wish I could live two lives, one in which I achieve all of my professional goals and another in which I am a full-time stay at home super mom. However, God has given me only one “wild and precious life” to live and I will spend it trying to give my whole heart all that he calls me to pursue. When I catch myself thinking that all mothers are meant to be at home with their children full time, I think of the wonderful working women who have shown me God’s love while they left their children in the care of another: the nurses who cared for me so well in the hospital after I gave birth to my children; the teachers who inspired me to value learning; the receptionist at the pediatrician’s office who always squeezes us in when we need a sick visit. I think about what would happen to the families I serve as an occupational therapist if I no longer worked. Would they be able to find another occupational therapist? Would their child be as independent and happy if I had never worked with them? Today, motherhood will take priority over work. I will spend the day in sweatpants snuggling my sick children on the couch. I know that is the right decision, no matter how stressed I am over missing an important meeting or disappointing the families I was scheduled to see. There will be another day when work is given priority, and my children will spend time making memories with Daddy, Grammy, or the babysitter that they adore. This road that I am on is not easy, but this is the plan that works for now. If God has truly called me to each of these vocations, I pray that He will provide me with the support I need to live them both well. Theresa is a part-time working, Cradle Catholic mom of two littles living in Chicagoland. You can follow her on Twitter: @searchofsimpler and Instagram: @Tessie845.

This week I got see an exhibition by an artist known as Sister Mary Corita. Her body of work is absolutely breathtaking. The bright colors pull you in and as you get really close to read the tiny words she is written, your heart is drawn in even further. I used what I saw as inspiration to create this week's free weekly wallpaper depicting a part of today's gospel reading, John 6:51: Jesus said to the crowds: "I am the living bread that came down from heaven; whoever eats this bread will live forever; and the bread that I will give is my flesh for the life of the world." Let us remember this week that it is his body and blood that give us life and it is this life that we are to live in love and joy. Download it for your phone and desktop below. AND we are introducing an additional piece to our Sunday wallpapers!! We will now offer each design ready for print in our shop every week. You can print it on your home computer or send it to a print shop. Head here to grab it! Today's artwork was made by Erica of Be A Heart Design. Phone wallpaper Desktop wallpaper

Molly said it so well in today's devotion, so it's hard to reiterate any more than what she said, other than to be able to share with you some of the testimonies that have come from women who have incredibly beautiful things to say about this ministry, this community, and their relationship with God. Take it away, sisters. I LOVE being a part of Blessed is She. The readings and life-piercing reflections fill me up on the daily! -- Hannah --- I stumbled upon Blessed is She several months ago on a friend's Facebook page and was intrigued by the daily devotion pictures. Eventually, after browsing your website rather frequently, I signed up for the daily devotion email, and I can say with my entire being that I am exponentially thankful for the way our Lord is working through you ladies. It seems as if every single day the devotion is written specifically for me, straight from the Father to my heart... I pray that you will continue to share the beauty of the Gospel and the perfect love our Father has for us, His daughters. -- Ashley --- I just wanted to say thank you for starting this community! It is such a unique setup and I love the idea of it! I really really love the daily readings and reflections that are sent out, as it is hard to set aside time to reflect and think and having them sent to email is wonderful. Thank you!! Know of my prayers for you and the whole community. -- Michaela --- Attending the Blessed Brunch was a true joy. It was a morning filled with engaging conversations, infectious laughter, delicious food, and of course, wonderful, faith-filled women. Some of us came from near, others from far, but we all shared a common Catholic identity, which created an immediate sense of connection and community among us. I am so grateful to have met these other Blessed Is She sisters in person, and I would encourage everyone who is able to attend a Blessed Brunch near them. -- Ashley --- We had a very special day celebrating the baptism of my children! BIS has helped me grow in faith and I can honestly say this wouldn't have happened if it wasn't in my life the past few months. Very thankful. -- Anne Now we want to hear what you have to say. Write up your own post, Instagram picture, Facebook post, tweet, whatever is your favorite method of social communication, about this community, what it is to you, and your thoughts on it, and link it up by clicking "Add your link" below. Let's share our hearts with each other about Blessed is She. An InLinkz Link-up --- And now for something SUPER FUN. We have insanely talented writers and women in this community. They've come together to offer you the most beautiful and incredible prize package to one kind reader. Let me tell you all that you'll receive when YOU win: Beautiful embroidery hoop jewelry from Call Her Happy // writer Jenna Hines Gratitude Notepad from Be a Heart // creative manager Erica Tighe Blessed is She Print from With Joy Calligraphy // writer Elise Howe Woven Wall Hanging from Kent Heartstrings // writer Cassie Kent A $50 Credit to Whole Parenting Goods // Chief Content Editor + writer Nell O'Leary Two Blessed is She I Found Him Journals Enter to win below. a Rafflecopter giveaway