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3 Ways to Pray with Your Boyfriend, Fiancé, or Husband - Blessed Is She

3 Ways to Pray with Your Boyfriend, Fiancé, or Husband

For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I in the midst of them. -Matthew 18:20 We are all called to take time out of our...
How to Be a Great Godparent - Blessed Is She

How to Be a Great Godparent

Celebrant: Are you ready to help the parents of this child in their duty as Christian parents? Godparents: We are. -From the Rite for the Baptism of One Child My...
Subtle Works of Mercy - Blessed Is She

Subtle Works of Mercy

Sometimes I look at my life, and I don’t know whether hypocrisy or irony is screaming louder. I write about mercy, because I believe whole-heartedly in its power to change...
Ways to Find Community Within the Catholic Church - Blessed Is She

Ways to Find Community Within the Catholic Church

The Catholic Church is big, diverse, and widespread. It is such a beautiful source of community! Community is different for everyone. It can be through one person with whom you...
The Feminine Genius - Blessed Is She

The Feminine Genius

As a little girl, I remember wanting to pursue a number of different career paths: actress, singer, author, lawyer, and politician, to name a few. My father in particular encouraged...
Failing with Grace, Over and Over - Blessed Is She

Failing with Grace, Over and Over

Our two-and-a-half-year-old son Oscar can’t walk. He can’t talk. He has intractable epilepsy, a slippery demon that rears its head again and again. Often just when we think we finally...
Dancing on Disappointment - Blessed Is She

Dancing on Disappointment

A big theme in my life this year has been dancing upon disappointment. I want to be a woman who doesn’t live confined by the boundaries set by disappointment and...
Being Little in a World that Wants You to Think Bigger - Blessed Is She

Being Little in a World that Wants You to Think Bigger

When I was in high school, I loved the idea of going back to visit once I graduated. It was a dream, really. I would be able to see all...
15 Minutes a Day: Cultivating Our Passions - Blessed Is She

15 Minutes a Day: Cultivating Our Passions

When my daughter, Holly, was about two years old, we were sitting on the carpet drawing with crayons on a jumbo drawing pad. She was an avid Frozen fan, so...
RICE: Like Physical Therapy, But for Your Soul - Blessed Is She

RICE: Like Physical Therapy, But for Your Soul

I was feeling a little under the weather. Have you ever wondered about the origin of the idiom “under the weather”? The consensus on a brief and unvetted internet search...
Trusting God in Seasons of Change - Blessed Is She

Trusting God in Seasons of Change

I have always been a notorious planner, or as I prefer to put it, I’m goal-oriented. For as long as I can remember, I’ve always been one to anticipate my...
How to Find Catholic Friends in College - Blessed Is She

How to Find Catholic Friends in College

My college journey led me to three different schools over five years as I refined my major, and then transferred until I landed on the right program for me. While...