August 7, 2026 // Friday of the Eighteenth Week in Ordinary Time // Optional Memorial of Saint Sixtus II, Pope and Martyr, and his Companions, Martyrs // Optional Memorial of Saint Cajetan, Priest
Read the Word // Open your Bible to today’s Gospel: Matthew 16:24-28
Reflect on the Word //
It was a Friday evening, the exhausted kind, when I encountered a lovely Dominican Sister. As we talked, I shared some of my built-up weariness and fear as I was taking a new leap in my life. I guess I had thought that I had done enough hard things for Jesus, but I was realizing that He was going to keep asking for more.
To which Sister confidently replied, “He will ask more of you, but He will also give you more.”
In today’s Gospel, Jesus tells His friends something similar: “Whoever loses his life for my sake will find it” (Matthew 16:25). I wonder if His disciples understood the weight of this statement, this calling to follow their Friend to His Cross and then to their own martyrdoms. The more I look at my own life, I wonder if I really understand it either.
It is so radical that it has to change everything if it is true: my earthly life is meant to be lost. It is meant to be poured out, offered up, given away for God. In the end, nothing else will matter.
This is freedom, really. No wonder that my attempts to keep my life for myself make me miserable! All my anxiety about how I am going to make myself happy, satisfying all of my own desires on just the right timeline! That was never what my life was for.
Jesus speaks truly when He tells us, “What profit would there be for one to gain the whole world and forfeit his life?” (Matthew 16:26) The whole world is about all we can imagine, and yet He wants even more than that for us. He wants us to be happy, infinitely more than we ever could want it ourselves. He wants to give us everything for all eternity.
Relate to the Lord // Today, ask Him for the grace to give Him everything in return.
