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When the Holidays Make Your Grief Bigger - Blessed Is She

When the Holidays Make Your Grief Bigger

Everyone has a story. When I meet people for the first time and express genuine interest in their lives, many respond dismissively. “Oh, my life isn’t that exciting. It’s pretty...
The Serenity Prayer and Letting it Go - Blessed Is She

The Serenity Prayer and Letting it Go

Often, I feel like Queen Elsa in the 2013 Disney film, Frozen, with "let it go" repeating in my head like a scratched record or a warped mix tape warbling...
Celebrating St. Nicholas Day: Unique Ideas - Blessed Is She

Celebrating St. Nicholas Day: Unique Ideas

I’m not going to lie, friends. Prior to writing this post, I did not know much about St. Nicholas. Sure, I knew the familiar Christmas tunes, the heated debates of...
Songs of the Season: Advent Music vs. Christmas Music - Blessed Is She

Songs of the Season: Advent Music vs. Christmas Music

Welcome to Advent, sisters! Isn’t it wonderful that the time has come to prepare for Christ’s birth yet again? What an absolute joy and gift! Yesterday at Mass, you saw...
7 Ways to Gift Differently with Meaningful and Minimalist Gift Giving - Blessed Is She

7 Ways to Gift Differently with Meaningful and Minimalist Gift Giving

Have you had this conversation in your head, too? It goes something like this: “This is all just too much. You’ve spoiled me. I forgot so-and-so! There are simply too...
A Great Light // The 2018 Advent Gathering - Blessed Is She

A Great Light // The 2018 Advent Gathering

Every year, in the midst of Advent, we as a sisterhood take pause for a one-day retreat together. Although we're scattered throughout the entire world, we carve out time in...
Catholic Books to Savor this Advent - Blessed Is She

Catholic Books to Savor this Advent

Every year, around this time, I start to feel a bit weary. The fatigue I feel toward the end of the calendar year can be likened to how a runner...
What Do You Ask of Him? // On the Feast of St. Andrew the Apostle - Blessed Is She

What Do You Ask of Him? // On the Feast of St. Andrew the Apostle

The Advent season is coming up. It's one of my favorite times of the year. I am beginning to contemplate how I can best meditate on the sacrificial journey Joseph...
Advent and Christmas Books for Children - Blessed Is She

Advent and Christmas Books for Children

Sitting down with my children and opening one of our treasured Advent and Christmas picture books has become a dear part of our seasonal family traditions. There is something magical...
Living Liturgically During Advent - Blessed Is She

Living Liturgically During Advent

Advent is, by its very nature, a season of waiting and anticipation, not a destination. But to me this year, it does have a sense of being a “grand finale.”...
A Marriage Blessing - Blessed Is She

A Marriage Blessing

It all started when my grandma came home from Rome a few summers ago. She said, “Oh Honey! There were all these couples in their wedding attire meeting the Pope....
Bringing the Light: Preparing for Advent - Blessed Is She

Bringing the Light: Preparing for Advent

One of my favorite memories of our first home in Minnesota was going out on a cold night (which we had no business going out into). It was probably near...