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St. Thérèse, Doctor of Merciful Love - Blessed Is She

St. Thérèse, Doctor of Merciful Love

When I was young, my family owned an illustrated Lives of the Saints book. On the cover was a black and white picture of a young girl. I remember flipping...
Embracing the Little Way - Blessed Is She

Embracing the Little Way

Picture this. A young girl is just starting to fall in love with the Lord and discovers that everyone on this earth has a call to sainthood. But that wasn’t...
Security + Love - Blessed Is She

Security + Love

My heaven it is to feel in me some likeness blest To Him Who made me and my soul hath reconciled; My heaven it is always beneath His eye to...
How the Fear of Hell Made Me Want to Be Holy - Blessed Is She

How the Fear of Hell Made Me Want to Be Holy

It constantly happens that the Lord permits a soul to fall so that it may grow humbler, when it is honest, and realizes what it has done, and returns, it...
Our Parishes Need Us to Lead By Example - Blessed Is She

Our Parishes Need Us to Lead By Example

I love my parish for many reasons. We have one priest who’s a dynamic homilist, and another who is the most pastoral confessor I could hope to have. Our Community...
How to Find a Spiritual Director - Blessed Is She

How to Find a Spiritual Director

I’m a member of a large Blessed is She regional Facebook group. Questions related to spiritual direction often arise there. Women ask about how to find a director, seek recommendations...
Seasons of Loneliness - Blessed Is She

Seasons of Loneliness

I recently returned from four months abroad in the incredible city of Galway, Ireland. Although I had a great semester of fun adventures and friendships, I experienced a new road...
BIS Reads: It's OK to Start with You - Blessed Is She

BIS Reads: It's OK to Start with You

Women, more than men, in their desire to give relationally, tend to want to give without taking. Women want to suffer their boundaries in the name of love and let...
How to Foster Your Relationship with Christ at a Secular College - Blessed Is She

How to Foster Your Relationship with Christ at a Secular College

Growing up, I had an incredible community of Catholic friends. I was never challenged or persecuted for my beliefs. I was able to build a strong foundation for my faith...
Weekly Wallpaper // 145 - Blessed Is She

Weekly Wallpaper // 145

The fruit of righteousness is sown in peace for those who cultivate peace. // James 3:18 This week's beautiful wallpaper is from Carolyn of Brass & Mint Co. as a...
Beauty + Love - Blessed Is She

Beauty + Love

In the golden light of morning I carefully imagined you to being. I curated each color of you. Every shade creating intricacy and depth. Edges and bends harmonized to create...
Think on These Things - Blessed Is She

Think on These Things

It is so easy to get dragged down in the negativity of a situation. The devil often tries to use something unexpected or challenging to lead us to despair. This...