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Dating and the Quest for Holiness - Blessed Is She

Dating and the Quest for Holiness

Dating and holiness are not two words that I often associate with each other. The modern, free-range dating of today’s world leaves us with precious few saintly examples to follow...
The Feast of Sts. Anne and Joachim - Blessed Is She

The Feast of Sts. Anne and Joachim

The first time I remember learning about St. Anne was when I was in the fourth grade and I had to write a short paper on whichever saint I wanted....
Modesty: Healing the Wounds of Conditional Love - Blessed Is She

Modesty: Healing the Wounds of Conditional Love

When I first encountered the Catholic Church, I was blessed to be welcomed into a community of young women living their faith with vivacity and energy. As a secular feminist,...
St. Teresa of Avila and the Cathedrals of Spain - Blessed Is She

St. Teresa of Avila and the Cathedrals of Spain

I recently went on a grand and life-changing adventure/pilgrimage/trip to Spain. I set out with the intention to read and reflect on St. Teresa of Avila, but by the end...
Weekly Wallpaper // 136 - Blessed Is She

Weekly Wallpaper // 136

Every plant that my heavenly Father has not planted will be uprooted. // Matthew 15:13 Yikes, I think to myself. Is that what it is You've been doing? Everything that...
The Mindful Catholic Review: Mindful in an Authentically Catholic Way - Blessed Is She

The Mindful Catholic Review: Mindful in an Authentically Catholic Way

It is like I was born again in the slowness of that hospital room. It was easy to be mindful and open and feel since the feelings were overwhelming and...
Trees + Dust - Blessed Is She

Trees + Dust

I think that I shall never see A poem lovely as a tree. A tree whose hungry mouth is pressed Against the earth's sweet flowing breast; A tree that looks...
Surrendering with Lipstick On - Blessed Is She

Surrendering with Lipstick On

Surrender is like giving up but with lipstick on. And it’s that lipstick that makes all the difference. I’ve always been a lipstick gal. I remember as a teenager my...
Peace that Liberates the Soul - Blessed Is She

Peace that Liberates the Soul

All my life, I’ve been a restless soul—a wayfarer, so to speak—always seeking the next adventure or following the trail of excitement. Yet another side of me pined for peace...
Being Rooted in the Faith During the Post-College Transition - Blessed Is She

Being Rooted in the Faith During the Post-College Transition

It took a lot of effort: late night studies, hours spent writing, and a last minute scramble to sew up the hole I burned in my gown, but I finally...
PMS: Spiritually Weathering the Storm - Blessed Is She

PMS: Spiritually Weathering the Storm

For years, I have battled severe pre-menstural syndrome (PMS). I don’t mean just some moodiness here and irritability there. I mean ball-of-anger-in-the-pit-of-my stomach one minute, and curled-up-in-the-corner bawling for no...
Our Lady of Mount Carmel - Blessed Is She

Our Lady of Mount Carmel

Today we celebrate the feast of Our Lady of Mount Carmel. Maybe you have read about Mount Carmel in the Old Testament or have a devotion to St. Therese of...