Sincerely, Lovebombed and Looking for the One

Memorial of Saints Cornelius, Pope, and Cyprian, Bishop, Martyrs

Reading 1 1 Corinthians 12:31-13:13

Brothers and sisters:
Strive eagerly for the greatest spiritual gifts.

But I shall show you a still more excellent way.

If I speak in human and angelic tongues
but do not have love,
I am a resounding gong or a clashing cymbal.
And if I have the gift of prophecy
and comprehend all mysteries and all knowledge;
if I have all faith so as to move mountains,
but do not have love, I am nothing.
If I give away everything I own,
and if I hand my body over so that I may boast
but do not have love, I gain nothing.

Love is patient, love is kind.
It is not jealous, love is not pompous,
it is not inflated, it is not rude,
it does not seek its own interests,
it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury,
it does not rejoice over wrongdoing
but rejoices with the truth.
It bears all things, believes all things,
hopes all things, endures all things.

Love never fails.
If there are prophecies, they will be brought to nothing;
if tongues, they will cease;
if knowledge, it will be brought to nothing.
For we know partially and we prophesy partially,
but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away.
When I was a child, I used to talk as a child,
think as a child, reason as a child;
when I became a man, I put aside childish things.
At present we see indistinctly, as in a mirror,
but then face to face.
At present I know partially;
then I shall know fully, as I am fully known.
So faith, hope, love remain, these three;
but the greatest of these is love.
 

Responsorial Psalm Psalm 33:2-3, 4-5, 12 and 22

R. (12) Blessed the people the Lord has chosen to be his own.
Give thanks to the LORD on the harp;
with the ten stringed lyre chant his praises.
Sing to him a new song;
pluck the strings skillfully, with shouts of gladness.
R. Blessed the people the Lord has chosen to be his own.
For upright is the word of the LORD,
and all his works are trustworthy.
He loves justice and right;
of the kindness of the LORD the earth is full.
R. Blessed the people the Lord has chosen to be his own.
Blessed the nation whose God is the LORD,
the people he has chosen for his own inheritance.
May your kindness, O LORD, be upon us
who have put our hope in you.
R. Blessed the people the Lord has chosen to be his own.

Alleluia See John 6:63c, 68c

R. Alleluia, alleluia.
Your words, Lord, are Spirit and life,
you have the words of everlasting life.
R. Alleluia, alleluia.
 

Gospel Luke 7:31-35

Jesus said to the crowds:
“To what shall I compare the people of this generation?
What are they like?
They are like children who sit in the marketplace and call to one another,

‘We played the flute for you, but you did not dance.
We sang a dirge, but you did not weep.’

For John the Baptist came neither eating food nor drinking wine,
and you said, ‘He is possessed by a demon.’
The Son of Man came eating and drinking and you said,
‘Look, he is a glutton and a drunkard,
a friend of tax collectors and sinners.’
But wisdom is vindicated by all her children.”
 

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Sincerely, Lovebombed and Looking for the One

September 16, 2026 // Memorial of Saints Cornelius, Pope, and Cyprian, Bishop, Martyrs

Read the Word // Open your Bible to today’s First Reading: 1 Corinthians 12: 31-13:13

Reflect on the Word //

The word “lovebomb” sounds like a wonderful explosion of love—something I as a romantic at heart would enjoy—but the term is more damaging than beautiful.

When I first started seriously dating after graduate school, I had thought I had found “the one.” He was kind, intelligent, and very vocal about how much he liked me and saw a future with me. I was elated! I was loved

But I wasn’t; that egregious outflow of compliments, reassuring words, and tender actions didn’t last longer than a few dates when he randomly ended things with me via text and a few curt words. 

I had been lovebombed, not loved.

Luckily for me, today’s First Reading holds a divine example of true love that I frequently turn to in times like these.

Saint Paul’s First Letter to the Corinthians describes what true love looks like—one that pursues, one that is ever-lasting, and one that does not fade quickly after flowery words and performative actions. “Love is patient, love is kind. It is not jealous, love is not pompous, it is not inflated,” and so on (1 Corinthians 13:4). That guy who made me feel so much was definitely not patient—he just left—and his love was surely pompous and inflated in hindsight. 

Saint Paul’s definition of love—even-tempered, selfless, and truth-seeking—was everything I wanted and more, and I often found myself questioning, Where in my life will I find a partner with all these traits and green flags, a love I could believe in? And the answer is and always will be Jesus Christ Himself. He is the true Love Who is patient with you, sees you for who you are, and intentionally loves you in all the ways you yearn for. Jesus “bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things,” and He “never fails” (1 Corinthians 13: 7-8).

Sister, no matter your vocation, let Jesus’ love explode all over your life in a good way! Believe in His words and actions because He will never stop pursuing you until you are His.

Relate to the Lord // Read 1 Corinthians 13 and replace the word love with the Name of Jesus. What stands out to you?

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