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Can You Hear Me?

I took a pregnancy test last week. It was negative. It was negative like all of the other negative tests I’ve taken. And all of those tests over all of those years are probably now sitting in a landfill somewhere, each with its own prayer attached to it. Because right before my eyes meet that lonely pink line waiting for me on the result window, I whisper out a prayer from the quiet longing of my heart. 

And I sometimes wonder if He hears me at all. Is my voice too weak? Is my prayer too shallow? Is my heart too cold? Because over and over my heart pleads for life to flood my empty belly, and over and over I am met with that solitary line. 

And it all feels so familiar. Because just four years ago, I sat with that very same prayer on my lips. The negatives kept corroding my faith and my heart kept beckoning for help. And then one day, I looked down at the test and saw life. 

We named that life Judah, which means “praise.” Because for ten years we prayed for him, for ten years we swallowed the vitamins and took the hormones and pleaded for God to intervene. And He did. He heard the cry of our hearts, and so now we praise. 

But those pesky negatives have somehow made their way into our lives again, and the prayers we whisper out into the stillness still seem to echo out into a void. Yet there is hope in this darkness. Because when your prayers ache with the longings of your heart, it is often easy to forget about all of the ways God has heard your cries. It’s easy to push past the answers you’ve received and see only the silence that billows out before you.  

He hears you, sister. Sometimes you need only look back at your own life to see that truth. And when the waves of doubt meet you in the silence, rest in the testimony of your past.

He heard the cry of our hearts, and so now we praise. // @iambritcal Click To Tweet

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Brittany Calavitta is an enthusiastic advocate for a good book, strong coffee, and a hopeful heart. After battling years of infertility, she and her husband welcomed their first child on September 11, 2016. You can find out more about her here.

8 Comments

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    Gozie
    January 11, 2020 at 10:25 am

    💕 reat in the testimony of your past. Great reminder.

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    Kat
    January 11, 2020 at 10:57 am

    Love this beautiful and personal reflection. It spoke to me in many ways. Thank you for sharing your heart, Brittany.

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      Nell O'Leary
      January 11, 2020 at 3:53 pm

      She’s really a gift. We’re so glad it spoke to you.

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    Regina
    January 11, 2020 at 11:09 am

    Thank you so much for sharing your heart, Brittany ❤

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      Nell O'Leary
      January 11, 2020 at 3:45 pm

      She’s such a gift! Thank you for being here.

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    Mary
    January 11, 2020 at 5:49 pm

    I prayed asking the Virgin Mary if she is really listening to my years and years of everyday praying. I so very much needed just to know that today. I asked her to let me know in some particular way before this day ends, that my soul would just know. She answered me with this! Thank you!

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      Lindsay Durrenberger
      January 12, 2020 at 12:06 am

      So glad this spoke to you, friend. Thanks for sharing!

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